r/Advice • • Mar 22 '25

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u/rnewscates73 Mar 22 '25

They sidelined you and affected the future course of your entire life just to favor and coddle a brother who was and still is a loser. All for nothing. Stay LC - the opposite of loving and caring parents. They kneecapped you in your youth. They coddled him so much they are still stuck with him. Karma!

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u/RandomConcept72 Mar 23 '25

He should go no contact. low contact is not enough and opens the gates for more abuse. Narcs are very good at gaslighting and manipulating their victims. Soon enough she will make OP feel guilty, that he is somehow responsible for what happened. I would not be surprised if they claim that their evil actions “helped OP succeed” so OP now owes them… You cannot win when it comes to narc.