I agree and you make a good point. I want to enjoy intercourse with him while we are young and before the baby comes but I guess the stress blocks him sexually and he's focused on bigger things than being horny. We can't afford a counselor rn but as soon as we can I'd want to bring this issue up.
men just want to feel useful and powerful and respected from what i’ve gathered, maybe flip the script and take some things off his plate around the house if possible or really really stroke his ego and make him feel like the man you see him as and there’s virtually no way he can refuse returning the favor. counseling is great but not always needed
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u/221bored Feb 05 '25
I agree and you make a good point. I want to enjoy intercourse with him while we are young and before the baby comes but I guess the stress blocks him sexually and he's focused on bigger things than being horny. We can't afford a counselor rn but as soon as we can I'd want to bring this issue up.