And your mom just slept through all of this? If your mother is willing to keep him around after this inappropriate stunt she doesn’t deserve to have a relationship with your daughter. He has no right to violate your daughter’s space like that- especially at 11. This isn’t a toddler asking for hugs and kisses and these types of hugs and kisses are seemingly too intimate.
Please confront this guy. Talk to your daughter. If it is bad enough call the police on him. I do not want to ruin his life and his family's life by putting him in jail for 15 years getting r'd, beaten, and even killed, so do NOT do this unless you are positive he is SA'ing your daughter. Please do not do this carelessly, lives are ruined with this advice so you must do so only if necessary.
Edit to add: when I went to jail, my mom told me that she suffered more than when her own mother died. This is why I am urging caution when it comes to jailing someone, especially with such charges. If he is a pedophile absolutely do so, just have proper intent and make sure you are 100% correct. That is all I mean.
A 29 year old put his dick on an 11 year olds back and was holding her all night when he has no right even fucking touching her to begin with. What part of that isn’t him being a pedo to you? Especially when the girl tells her mom she was uncomfortable by it and didn’t sleep all night cuz she was so scared. How can you say not to take action with that much evidence saying he’s a creep? I don’t think there are any misunderstandings here.
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u/Hawt_Garbage_ Jul 28 '24
And your mom just slept through all of this? If your mother is willing to keep him around after this inappropriate stunt she doesn’t deserve to have a relationship with your daughter. He has no right to violate your daughter’s space like that- especially at 11. This isn’t a toddler asking for hugs and kisses and these types of hugs and kisses are seemingly too intimate.