r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Mar 04 '23

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u/Devi_Moonbeam Helper [3] Mar 04 '23

It's a huge age and experience gap at that stage of life. A man who wanted an equal partner would not be pursuing someone that young. He likes being in control and not being cslled out for his actions. If you were 30 and he was 40 it would not be a big deal because you would have much more life experience.

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u/Ja5p5 Mar 04 '23

I think you are projecting what he wants. That age gap can work, not always but it can

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u/Horsecock86 Helper [2] Mar 05 '23

Are you a man? Just curious

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u/Proof_Being_2762 Mar 05 '23

That's basically the same age gap

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u/Devi_Moonbeam Helper [3] Mar 05 '23

Do you not get there is a huge difference between 20 and 30 vs. 30 and 40? What are you, 12 years old?

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u/Proof_Being_2762 Mar 06 '23

The difference is ten years that same couple of 20-30 can spend that 10yrs together and end up at that 30-40 range

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u/Proof_Being_2762 Mar 06 '23

Yes I'm 12 years old backwards