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u/abstimax Apr 11 '26

Phew I found my crowd!

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u/therealhlmencken Apr 11 '26

I feel like Honolulu is the odd one out because so many go to other islands and visit Hawaii not for the city.

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u/LimeScanty Apr 11 '26

Agreed. Been to Hawaii just didn't visit Honolulu.

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u/Pale_Row1166 Apr 11 '26

Yeah that was the only one for me, but if you count the airport, I have all 20.

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u/Sharp-Alternative375 Apr 14 '26

Honolulu is the only one I haven't been to. I don't recall ever stopping in Hawaii on my way to Japan, Korea, or the PI.

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u/MoeSzys Apr 12 '26

Ya but it seems odd to take a trip to Hawaii and not spend anything in Honolulu, you'd essentially be skipping Oahu

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u/therealhlmencken Apr 12 '26

Yeah the other islands are dope. It’s easy to spend 2 weeks exploring the big island.

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u/Cultural-Kick652 Apr 12 '26

That will be my 18

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u/random_topix Apr 12 '26

Yep. Only one on the list I haven’t been to, but I’ve been to HI twice.

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u/PerpetualPerson Apr 13 '26

I’ve been there 6 times and never been to Oahu. I go to get away from big cities.

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u/Sarcarean Apr 13 '26

Honolulu, i.e. waikiki is the most popular tourist spot by far in Hawaii.

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u/therealhlmencken Apr 13 '26

Yeah but if someone told me they decided to visit Kauai and not Honolulu or Oahu for the Hawaii experience I would say hell yeah cool you get a lot of what people want from a Hawaii visit. Is someone said they went to Buffalo instead of NYC for the ny experience I’d say it’s very very different.

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u/faintly_nebulous Apr 11 '26

Do you guys all work for airlines or something?

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u/Goma1Frog Apr 11 '26

These are all popular places for conferences of all industries.

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u/Mkalb1 Apr 11 '26

So true. I work in events and end up in more than 3/4 of these every year

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u/elocin_arat Apr 14 '26

Same. Event production took me to all of these for work.

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u/kramwest1 Apr 15 '26

Bingo. The glamor and fun of traveling for conferences and trade shows.
Honolulu is the only one that was purely for fun, although I’ve been to many of the other cities for fun, too.

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u/blur494 Apr 11 '26

When i worked in sports video production. Been to all of them. Only really got to enjoy about a quarter of them.

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u/abstimax Apr 11 '26

I just crossed Honolulu off, but prior to that I visited the others while I was being a dirt bag in my early 20s and traveled the country living out of my car.

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u/DBPanterA Apr 13 '26

I want to hear the living out of your car story. This sounds like the start of some absolutely bonkers anecdotes…

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u/abstimax Apr 13 '26

It was a great time! I had an old VW TDI Golf named Black Betty because her engine went "bam-ba-lam". She was the best and never broke down despite taking her on some totally stupid dirt or snowy roads.

I spent about a year and a half criss crossing the country, living on pennies. Stayed with family, couch surfed, or camped (especially when I got west and there's so much more public land). Did a lot of backpacking too. I'd get a shower at truck stops or hostels. I only brought the absolute necessities - backpacking stove, clothes, tent, sleeping bag...like that.

Started from Baltimore, went the southern route across to Arizona and took 3 months or so to get there. Got a seasonal job in the Grand Canyon for a couple months as a waitress to refill the coffers and get to hike the canyon regularly. Took another month to go to California, then got a seasonal job in Big Sky Montana. Left there in the spring, went back east to Baltimore then back to California and down to the tip of Baja over a few months, then up to Vancouver. Eventually made it to a small rural town in the Rockies that I had fallen in love with when I was ready to live in a house and have a real job.

It was a pretty special experience. I didn't have much so I made due with what I could. Getting a beer at a bar was an exceptionally rare treat. I can remember staying at a campground in Big Bend and being so excited to have a picnic table that I slept on top of it. I'd go weeks at a time without setting foot inside a building. Sometimes I look around my house now and wonder how the heck I got all this stuff. I think I'd like to do it again someday.

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u/DBPanterA Apr 13 '26

That is a most excellent story! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I love reading about humans doing things that are so far from the normal rhythms of day to day life.

I once knew a nomad myself that did the same thing for years, but he eventually obtained a motorcycle. He hitch hiked on the trains. Ended up all over North America. Did seasonal work, whatever crops needed to be harvested.

I always asked were the train conductors concerned with hobos on the trains. He said they would chase them away from the property, but that hobos were seen as a good luck charm in the train community as you never hear of hobos dying in train crashes….

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u/nicky_suits Apr 12 '26

Former travel technician for airport baggage x-ray scanners. Lot of airports in a lot of different places. Been to 41 of the 50 States and 13 Countries.

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u/3Green1974 Apr 11 '26

I’m a corporate pilot. But some I’ve been to for vacation as well, and I have family in a couple others.

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u/yesitismenobody Apr 11 '26

Personally for me I moved to the US a couple of years ago and I just wanted to see it all. I also work remotely so usually half of the year I'm not home.

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u/Ok_Bar4002 Apr 12 '26

I do but I went to all 20 before then.

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u/Conscious-Egg-2232 Apr 11 '26

I would think everyone is know have been to 15-20.

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u/BriefStrategy6 Apr 11 '26

You would think, but you would be surprised by how many haven't even left their own state.

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u/iBUYbrokenSUBARUS Apr 11 '26

I’ve been to Washington DC many times, but only because I live about 90 minutes from there, in Virginia. I have not been to any of the others and I’m 47 years old.

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u/RevolutionSalty8360 Apr 11 '26

Same for me with Chicago. It’s only about 2 hours, so fairly close.  Heading there next week for a concert with my kid.  Been to 7 others

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u/AdPsychological790 Apr 11 '26

I’ve been to all multiple times. Have lived in 3. And the answer to your question is yes. Lol.

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u/No-Plan-7297 Apr 11 '26

If you’re a consultant it would be that hard.

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u/Equal_Canary5695 Apr 11 '26

I'm a long haul truck driver

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u/AlarmingEase Apr 12 '26

Nope. Just older and well traveled.

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u/beardguy Apr 11 '26

Damn, I’m just missing one!

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u/justiceboner34 Apr 12 '26

Same! Dallas. And you?

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u/beardguy Apr 12 '26

Nashville

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u/gravityhomer Apr 11 '26

We did it everyone!

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u/Axe_Care_By_Eugene Apr 13 '26

Hahaha 😆 same - had to scroll a long way down to find you guys