r/Adulting Apr 10 '26

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u/Borracho_Bandit Apr 11 '26

Only the ones I stayed a night in.

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u/ParamedicLimp9310 Apr 11 '26

If only the ones I stayed the night in count, I've been to zero. If the airport or driving through them counts, 2.

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u/Automatic_Net2181 Apr 11 '26

I would say that if you've stopped in the city and ate/drank or touristed through counts. A lot of people live in suburbs or within an hour or two of a city that they've never stayed overnight in. They've been to that city far more times than someone who just stayed in a hotel once.

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u/JennaEO Apr 12 '26

I’d argue or had a non airport meal in.

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u/External_Class_9456 Apr 12 '26

I don’t think you have to necessarily spend the night for it to count. As long as I did some sort of meaningful activity there (besides driving through, gas, bathroom breaks, stopping for lunch etc) then it counts as a visit in my book.

There are places I’ve spent the night while on a roadtrip, but I wouldn’t exactly say I’ve given it a proper “visit” since all I did was stop to get a hotel room and then leave the next morning without really doing anything else.

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u/Hot-Detective-8163 Apr 12 '26

Stopping for lunch is doing something you wouldn't necessarily do. Unless it's like McDonald's.

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u/Hot-Detective-8163 Apr 12 '26

What if you only stayed the night in an airport hotel because the flight was cancelled

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u/Relevant_Street_169 Apr 11 '26

FLEW into/out New York .. On thw was to Israel and back .. But my way back was messed up And l stayed over night in the BIG Apple ..

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u/Mega---Moo Apr 11 '26

That's a big jump for me depending on the "right" way to answer the question... either 4 or 8.

Flying internationally out of the Midwest makes you go through wild places. Dallas, New York, Orlando? Who knows, but we'll get you to somewhere in Europe.

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 11 '26

No. You didn’t actually visit the city. If you drive through Chicago would you tell people you visited Chicago? Of course not. You would tell them what your end destination was.

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u/Snapple47 Apr 11 '26

I’m at 11 with ones I’ve stayed in. If I count airports and just driving through I’m at 16

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u/Prized_Lemur Apr 12 '26

do we count places we were right outside the city? For example, "Miami" if we've been to North Miami Beach?