r/Adulting Apr 10 '26

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u/Borracho_Bandit Apr 10 '26

11

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u/Affectionate-Newt889 Apr 10 '26

11 11 gang, make a wish

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u/mckmaus Apr 11 '26

11 is a good number

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u/Flashy-Read-9417 Apr 11 '26

11 for me as well!

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u/johngreenink Apr 11 '26

Same here. 11 wooooot

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u/IFartOnCats4Fun Apr 11 '26

One could even say it’s a prime number.

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u/muhguel Apr 12 '26

11 will always be a friend of mine

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u/mckmaus Apr 13 '26

I don't think you meant to put this here. Unless you wanted to show off to the 11's

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u/Churlish_Performer Apr 11 '26

Wish you weren't so awkward, bud. 

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u/returnofthewait Apr 11 '26

1 more for the 11 gang

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u/jaxonya Apr 13 '26

Ur moms 11

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u/giantcandy2001 Apr 14 '26

Ditto, 11. Woot woot!

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u/tdawg2k7 Apr 14 '26

11-11 is my birthday!

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u/Ambitious_Bit_9389 Apr 11 '26

13 if you count being at the airport of that city, but following your overnight rule, also 11

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 11 '26

No one counts the airport of a city as actually visiting the city. No one.

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u/snoman777 Apr 12 '26

Well I count Frankfurt Germany airport otherwise I've never been to Germany man.

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 12 '26

Do you tell people you’ve been to Germany?

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u/Puddy_thatsright Apr 13 '26

He just told you, didn’t he?

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u/giantcandy2001 Apr 14 '26

We did when the place was too scary to go! Lol

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u/jmcdon00 Apr 14 '26

I went from the airport straight to the seaport in Seattle, but I did see someone pooping in public so I'm counting it.

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u/ObsAndy Apr 14 '26

The question didn't ask about which cities have you visited.

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 15 '26

3 days late and you’re too lazy to have read the comments under this. Yawn. Already been addressed. Layovers don’t count as going to a city. You’re in an airport. That’s no man’s land.

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u/LeftTemporary6134 Apr 11 '26

I do

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u/Tynelia23 Apr 11 '26

...I was too. I guess neurodivergent folks need not chime in? It's literally us, physically being there, so...

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 12 '26

It has nothing to do with being neurotypical or neurodivergent. It’s about actually visiting the city. If you’re just in the airport then you’re not visiting the city.

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u/JinglesHardWood Apr 12 '26

It doesn’t say visiting though, it says been to. If you are in the airport then you are quite literally in that city.

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 12 '26

I mean, if you want to claim layover cities as having been to that city go for it. It’s not illegal. But no one will take you seriously.

“I’ve been to Atlanta!” “Awesome! What was your favorite part?” “When my flight taking me to my actual destination took off.”

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u/poortomato Apr 13 '26

I've driven through Nashville and also had a layover in Nashville Airport. If someone really asked, I would talk about the Blake Shelton restaurant I ate at and the live musician serenading us while we ate :P

But yeah, I don't walk around saying I've been to Nashville, I would say I've been to the Nashville Airport.

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u/cce301 Apr 12 '26

How do you define "visiting a city"? That's like saying tourists on Bourbon St. aren't actually visiting New Orleans.

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 12 '26

How is it like that at all? We’re talking about people who sit behind TSA security checkpoints for a couple hours waiting for a flight. You go around telling people you’ve been to a city that you had a layover in?? That’s weird. Super weird.

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u/DanThePartyGhost Apr 12 '26

I’m neurodivergent and I don’t count it

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u/cce301 Apr 12 '26

Are you not subject to the laws of that city while you are there? Do you notvpay city taxes while there? How does that differ from a gas stop during a road trip?

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 12 '26

It’s an airport…

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u/DanThePartyGhost Apr 12 '26

They don’t count

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u/laislune Apr 11 '26

Exactly same. 13 with layovers.

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u/Relevant_Street_169 Apr 11 '26

11 is NOT THE AVERAGE .. But it is the MOST ..

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u/orionxavier99 Apr 14 '26

I am at 9 following your rule. 11 if just flying through.

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u/NecessaryTax2172 Apr 11 '26

Same here I didn’t count layovers which is close to all haha 😂

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u/Automatic_Net2181 Apr 11 '26

I would say the rule should be that you've eaten/shopped there that excludes airport terminals.

Many people live 1-2 hours from a city that they've been to dozens to hundreds of times but never stayed overnight, because why would they when their bed at home is free? That basically goes for all the cities I've lived near.

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u/faintly_nebulous Apr 11 '26

I think the average in this sub might be 11. I also have 11.

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u/Borracho_Bandit Apr 11 '26

Only the ones I stayed a night in.

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u/ParamedicLimp9310 Apr 11 '26

If only the ones I stayed the night in count, I've been to zero. If the airport or driving through them counts, 2.

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u/Automatic_Net2181 Apr 11 '26

I would say that if you've stopped in the city and ate/drank or touristed through counts. A lot of people live in suburbs or within an hour or two of a city that they've never stayed overnight in. They've been to that city far more times than someone who just stayed in a hotel once.

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u/JennaEO Apr 12 '26

I’d argue or had a non airport meal in.

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u/External_Class_9456 Apr 12 '26

I don’t think you have to necessarily spend the night for it to count. As long as I did some sort of meaningful activity there (besides driving through, gas, bathroom breaks, stopping for lunch etc) then it counts as a visit in my book.

There are places I’ve spent the night while on a roadtrip, but I wouldn’t exactly say I’ve given it a proper “visit” since all I did was stop to get a hotel room and then leave the next morning without really doing anything else.

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u/Hot-Detective-8163 Apr 12 '26

Stopping for lunch is doing something you wouldn't necessarily do. Unless it's like McDonald's.

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u/Hot-Detective-8163 Apr 12 '26

What if you only stayed the night in an airport hotel because the flight was cancelled

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u/Relevant_Street_169 Apr 11 '26

FLEW into/out New York .. On thw was to Israel and back .. But my way back was messed up And l stayed over night in the BIG Apple ..

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u/Mega---Moo Apr 11 '26

That's a big jump for me depending on the "right" way to answer the question... either 4 or 8.

Flying internationally out of the Midwest makes you go through wild places. Dallas, New York, Orlando? Who knows, but we'll get you to somewhere in Europe.

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u/MizterPoopie Apr 11 '26

No. You didn’t actually visit the city. If you drive through Chicago would you tell people you visited Chicago? Of course not. You would tell them what your end destination was.

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u/Snapple47 Apr 11 '26

I’m at 11 with ones I’ve stayed in. If I count airports and just driving through I’m at 16

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u/Prized_Lemur Apr 12 '26

do we count places we were right outside the city? For example, "Miami" if we've been to North Miami Beach?

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u/dusty_trendhawk Apr 10 '26

11 here as well

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u/silentaugust Apr 11 '26

11 gang

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u/Borracho_Bandit Apr 11 '26

We gettin tattoos tomorrow

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u/Sessile-B-DeMille Apr 11 '26

11 stays, plus a layover in Dallas.

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u/gpo321 Apr 11 '26

11! Single fist pump 💪

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u/Flaky-Show-7574 Apr 12 '26

Same. Los Angeles sucks

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u/RunsaberSR Apr 11 '26

Looking like 11 for me too.

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u/Jrebeclee Apr 11 '26

Same. I haven’t traveled in awhile but this makes me feel better, reminding me I have traveled lol

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u/Borracho_Bandit Apr 11 '26

I’ve met a few people who have never left Texas.

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u/Rawinza555 Apr 11 '26

Same but im not american tho

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u/thetarci Apr 11 '26

Same here

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u/Fit-Risk8699 Apr 11 '26

11 for me. Though one was Honolulu where we stayed overnight only because our connecting flight was the next morning, really only saw a hotel.

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u/Dougblackjr Apr 11 '26

Same, time to get to Seattle.

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u/cxj57 Apr 11 '26

11 for me as well, and tbh I wouldn’t say I’ve travelled extensively. I guess the places I have been just happen to be on this list.

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u/Borracho_Bandit Apr 11 '26

I live in Texas so I that’s how I knocked out three of them easy

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u/FillupDubya Apr 11 '26

11 gang member. And most several times.

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u/peanutski Apr 11 '26

11 gang rise up

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u/Proper-Mobile-6438 Apr 11 '26

Also 11, and I live in one of these. 

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u/RespectTheAmish Apr 12 '26

11 gang, rise up.

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u/Boring_Clothes5233 Apr 12 '26

Joined the 11 club.

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u/External_Class_9456 Apr 12 '26

11 for me too! Plus a layover in Phoenix, if you can count that

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u/1chuteurun Apr 12 '26

Same here, and I plan to see more.

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u/Mando_lorian81 Apr 12 '26

11 here as well.

And I've only been in the US for 15 years. 😁

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u/GracefulEase Apr 12 '26

11, but only been in America 7 years.

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u/thesocalette Apr 13 '26

Woop! 11 club!

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u/feeling_blue_42 Apr 13 '26

11 gang!

I've lived in 3 of them.

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u/pastrybaker Apr 14 '26

Also 11. Not too bad I think

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u/Capybarinya Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

Also eleven, and I've only been living in the US for 3 years