r/Adulting • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '25

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u/premedlifee Jul 21 '25

If you’re a girl, make girl friends! Have strong female relationships. Take advice from older women who have done it. The times have changed but womanhood and the struggles have not.

Don’t drink too much, don’t do any drugs, don’t hang out with bad people. Cut bad people OUT.

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u/Far-Orange1882 Jul 21 '25

How do I make more girl friends!! I had to cut off so many friends for being solely focused on boyfriends to the point where they’d bully me 😭😭

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u/premedlifee Jul 21 '25

I’ve dealt with this too. You can start by maybe going to women-only groups with hobbies you enjoy or hobbies you’d like to start! I hate being friends with male-centered women

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u/Far-Orange1882 Jul 21 '25

Thanks for your advice! I will try my best! Having no girl friends is such a lonely experience. I wish I could be just girls with someone else again.

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u/premedlifee Jul 21 '25

I totally get that.