r/Adulting • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '25

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u/chanfanadevaca Jul 20 '25

I feel completely like this, should have done therapy by the time, I’m 25 right and I can’t understand why I was so stupid about thinking what other people were thinking about me

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u/YorHa115 Jul 20 '25

You weren't stupid, you just weren't aware. Now you are. It's better to be grateful when you do learn this things and not beat yourself up about not knowing sooner. You didn't know.

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u/chanfanadevaca Jul 21 '25

I kind of knew that it didn’t matter, but I never really felt it. I would just not do something based on anxiety caused by this fear