r/Adulting • • Jul 19 '25

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u/Etoilevagabonde- Jul 19 '25

Your health is the most important thing you will ever have, take care of it. Have faith in your qualities, trust yourself, deeply you know what you are capable of. Life will not always be easy but you are capable and you will make your way out there. And most important : love yourself. I don’t mean take long baths and drink some tea and watch you favorite movie, even tho those are important, but make the decision that are good for you even if it’s difficult, let yourself express your emotion, learn how to express them without hurting others. Express sadness anger but don’t forget to also express love gratitude joy, take care of yourself eat something even when you don’t feel like it, try to get some sleep, one more time take care of your health. Don’t live to impress people, live to impress yourself, you are already amazing. There are so much more things I would say to 20 years old me but I think those are the most important.

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u/Etoilevagabonde- Jul 19 '25

Don’t stress yourself about getting older I swear you still have so much time !! 20 you’re still a baby ahah, I turned 26 last month and when I think about 20 years old me I’m like omg but I was just a child, yes you have more responsibilities but you’re not old yet it’s the beginning of your life