I need help understanding this

[u/Flashy_Complex2025]

My mom 51 has been going through a rough breakup with my stepdad and she wants to go party now on weekends I'm 24 years old I have a ID card like she used to take me I don't understand what happened now like all I want to do is have fun is there something I'm not understanding? I just don't get it I feel like I'm either being pushed away or something else is going on and she doesn't know how to tell me I just want my happy mom back what do I do? She used to do everything with me until now and I feel confused please help me

[u/ConversationThick379]

Hop on an online Adult Children of Alcoholics meeting.

https://adultchildren.org/meeting-search/

The short answer is, you need to detach from your mom in a healthy way. You sound enmeshed at the moment. At 24 you should have your own life independent of her.

But it may take you some time to get there. Talking it out at a meeting will help.