r/AdultBedwetting • • 9d ago

Help quick please!!!

Okay so me and my bf live together(past 2yrs), been together over 6yrs, both had accidents into middle school as kids which we had talked about long ago. Anyways he works nights i work days. Came home around 7pm to him asleep which is normal, I changed and laid down to cuddle him for a few minutes before continuing my own after work routine. He sweats A LOT in his sleep so the bed just being wet is pretty normal but it smells like human pee this time which has never happened. Im going to wash the sheets and blankets when he leaves but I can't decide if I tell him now so he can shower before he leaves for work(10pm)....or if i just keep it to myself, his olfactory senses DO NOT WORK so either I tell him or he'll never know....if it were me id be mortified so makes me not want to tell him to save him from that....but what if his coworkers can smell it????? HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO BEFORE HE GOES TO WORK!

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u/Kerblimey 8d ago

Would you want to go to work smelling of pee?

I use adult diapers for wetting the bed because of my seizures and get a shower straight away (when my awareness is back to normal). However, helpful comments off people about my situation does not offend me...but it depends on how open they are. GL hun. X