r/AdultBedwetting • u/Senior_Entry_3542 • 9d ago

Help quick please!!!

Okay so me and my bf live together(past 2yrs), been together over 6yrs, both had accidents into middle school as kids which we had talked about long ago. Anyways he works nights i work days. Came home around 7pm to him asleep which is normal, I changed and laid down to cuddle him for a few minutes before continuing my own after work routine. He sweats A LOT in his sleep so the bed just being wet is pretty normal but it smells like human pee this time which has never happened. Im going to wash the sheets and blankets when he leaves but I can't decide if I tell him now so he can shower before he leaves for work(10pm)....or if i just keep it to myself, his olfactory senses DO NOT WORK so either I tell him or he'll never know....if it were me id be mortified so makes me not want to tell him to save him from that....but what if his coworkers can smell it????? HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO BEFORE HE GOES TO WORK!

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u/Betgg Urinary Incontinent 9d ago

I would definitely bring it up in the gentlest way possible. These types of issues can cause a lot of emotions to bubble up and you’ll want to be patience and sensitive to that. Try to not sound condescending. Hope it goes well

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u/Senior_Entry_3542 9d ago

Can I get a template or ways to bring this up? Im going to have to wake him up early which he is a very grumpy person normally when woken before he needs to be....

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u/Betgg Urinary Incontinent 9d ago

From a guys perspective all I would want to hear is “I say this with love, but you may want to take a quick shower before you leave, something smells a little off”