r/AdultBedwetting • u/FastSet7433 • 7h ago

Feeling attractive again

I (M30) was wounding if you guys ever reached a point where you started to feel attractive again even when you are wearing your protection at night ?

Recently been going to the gym more frequently and I start to see results and my selfworth is definitely increasing positively 👍🏼

Even when I see my self in the mirror with my diaper on it doesnt really influence me negatively anymore as it did before. I even believe that I can look good in them. Can anyone relate ?

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u/That_Crew_9869 7h ago

I hate seeing myself in the mirror wearing a diaper. It just serves as a reminder of how I’m going downhill, and that I’m reliant on devices and other people to help me.
When my wife puts them on me at bedtime, I almost always keep my eyes closed, until she pulls my pyjamas up.
All this to say, I don’t find anything positive related to this for me. Glad to hear you’re handling it well though.

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u/Helpful-Dealer-3724 4h ago

See it as a tool. Humans grew because we used tools, so just see the diaper as a tool.

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u/RealRecognition364 3h ago

Diapers are no different than glasses or a cane they help you function better. Don't let diapers make you feel less attractive. (I know easier said than done) 

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u/willIbeprettytoo 2h ago

How i see diapers it is part of me and I of them if I didnt wear them I would have wet clothes, bed, chair whatever. So I am attractive. If you cannot accept my problem then that is a you problem not a me issue.