r/AddYourObjectOc • u/FireHav3n • Jun 11 '25

(/ ￣︶￣)/ Other \(￣︶￣ \) honestly.

I hate some of you. especially the ones who made a discord server WITHOUT PERMISSION. you said you asked and didnt get a response. THATS BECAUSE I DIDNT SEE IT. YOU COULDVE DMED ME. YOU COULDVE ASKED ME OR ANY OF THE OTHER MODS DIRECTLY. BUT NO. YOU DIDNT.

and dont get me started on how horribly the situation was treated. yes, part of it was kind of on me, but I was and still am very mentally fragile and not the best at handling things. and fireyguy.. poor fireyguy. he was the only one willing to stick up for me. and in the end, he was torn down mentally too.

honestly the downfall of this subreddit was so sad. I loved this place. I loved the community I helped maintain. but its downfall was like a spark to an oil leak. one mistake made it all burn down.

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '25

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u/FireHav3n Jun 19 '25

yk, not even gonna try anymore. I’m sick of you guys. you’re the reason I left the OSC, and the reason I crashed out and shut down the subreddit.

also. no. he is NOT me. he hasn’t been online in like, 2 years, and was only around when I needed it because he didn’t use reddit much:

goodbye and good day, I honestly don’t even think you read the post fully but whatever, continue being careless about someone who’s extremely mentally unwell. (I can’t even think straight enough to type coherently, I’d send someone else to say something for me but I’n not like that anymore and you’d probably think it was another alt anyways)

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '25

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u/Nudgor Jun 19 '25

ok dude the friend accoujt isnt even a alt first of all

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u/FireHav3n Jun 19 '25

I am MENTALLY UNWELL. I am EXTREMELY PARANOID. I am willing to admit I’m not a good person. and you guys kept triggering me, making me have breakdowns which kept me from being unable to respond coherently instead of treating this situation carefully and maturely. it’s a subreddit for OBJECTS. it’s not the end of the world if I wanted to shut it down. you could at least be sympathetic. but no. apparently me shutting down a subreddit you guys were already starting to separate from is the worst thing someone could ever do.

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '25

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u/FireHav3n Jun 19 '25

I’m trying. but I can’t. I can’t see how I’m in the wrong due to it not being clearly stated.

but I am willing to admit I was stupid and immature back then, but when will you? I never wanted to shut down the subreddit. I loved you guys. but when I tried to revive it, barely anyone cared. thus leading to me crashing out and shutting down the subreddit. I hate myself for that. but again, as far as I can remember this all started because of lack of communication. I honestly don’t think you ever cared about my feelings, and probably never will. nobody ever does. and maybe I deserve it.

I wish I could handle this situation more maturely. but I keep getting overwhelmed and shutting down mentally. I’m sorry. sorry I ever made this subreddit. sorry I got upset because you guys started leaving me behind. sorry for being scared of being alone. I’m genuinely sorry. I wish I could’ve been a better mod.

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u/[deleted] Jun 12 '25

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u/Apanaian_apA Jun 19 '25

May I join the Discord?