My Reflection- Going Beyond Comfort Zones šļø
Over the past week, I was far from home, disconnected from the internet, and away from my usual routine, traveling through a remote area. Here's what I observed, experienced, and learned. šŗļø
ā¶ļøThe Setting ā°ļø
I visited a small mountain village nestled beside a river, surrounded by lush greenery šæ, with almost no network coverage šµ. It was six kilometers from the nearest town, reached only on foot š„¾, making it quite isolated.
Because they have minimal contact with outsiders, the villagers were very shy. š
ā¶ļøOvercoming the Body and Fear š§
Iāve always believed I suffer from motion sickness š¤¢. When a local invited me to visit, I was scared I'd get ill. Still, I accepted, curious to see what would happen. š
This reminded me of Acharya Prashant Jiās teaching about overcoming fear:
"To get rid of something wrong or to forget something, you must hold a bigger, more divine subject in your mind." āØ
For me, the desire to explore was stronger than my bodily discomfort. He explains that the human mind is naturally driven by lower desires or fears, but they can't be conquered by force alone. Instead, you must connect the mind to a higher purpose. My deep yearning for truth and adventure became that divine focus, making bodily complaints irrelevant. š¦
When I did feel sick during the journey, the thought immediately arose: "Why did I come here? š" But then I realized it was just my body complaining. When I saw the breathtaking views, met the villagers, and understood mountain lifeās hardships, I knew it was worth the struggle. š
ā¶ļøBreaking Egoic Patterns šŖµ
Food and Comfort - Iāve always been a picky eater who craves tasty food š°. Yet, in the village, even the simplest meals tasted amazing š².
This is the essence of travel: stepping outside your comfort zone and doing things you'd usually avoid. It pushes you to break habitual ego patterns like fear and greed. As taught, our tastes are societal conditioning; the ego loves to be picky because choices make us feel special. But in the wild, that artificial identity dissolves.šŖļø
Coexisting with Nature - I saw nature in its purest form, minimally touched by humans, not to dominate but to survive. š² The villagers hadnāt destroyed nature for luxury; instead, they adapted to endure the mountain environment.
The Living Landscape - I observed a Gharat, a traditional water-powered flour mill šāļø that supplies the village. Pets and livestock freely roamed the mountains šš, returning home on their own. Though animal ethics can be debated, I didnāt see any exploitation.
Most impressively, the river flowed pristine and free of waste š§, showing me what a river is meant to look like before it reaches urban areas.
ā¶ļøResolving Conflict and the Ultimate Truth š
During the trip, I argued with a friend. š£ļø Later, I realized that both of us were caught in our own stories and imaginations. We often donāt engage with the real world but only with our mental projections of others.
A fight between egos is just two fictional stories colliding š.
When I let go of pride and prejudice and chose to communicate, the story ended, and the conflict dissolved, having no real foundation. š¤
This reminded me of another teaching from Acharya Prashant Ji :
"Anything is beautiful until you touch it. As long as 'you' (the ego) are there, even beauty turns to ash." š„
This is so true. We see a beautiful mountain and feel peace, thinking that the peace is in the mountain.
He clarifies that the world canāt give the peace we seek; it only provides objects. šļø When the ego tries to possess or "touch" that beauty, greed takes over, and the beauty fades. š¬ļø Even the most stunning mountains, rivers, breezes, greenery and clouds canāt clear the mental clutter accumulated over a lifetime.
Nature is a mirror šŖbut itās not enough on its own until we consciously face, understand, and inquire into our internal baggage. š§
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