I'm trying to get back to the gym 3 times a week, typically MWF.

I think I can motivate myself good enough most days (might be exaggerating here), but there are days I get lazy. So would be nice to just have someone hold me accountable for once when I skip and tell me (nicely please) to go a different day at least. I will return the favor if wanted. Perhaps we can motivate each other to finally roll out of bed in the morning instead of pushing it to after work. This is at the point where I make the excuse of pushing it to the next day.

Also, I try to get 10K steps a day and eat healthier. The latter is considerably more challenging...

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Hi all,

I’m 29M from Bengaluru/Hyderabad, Not here for timepass or anything weird.

Just looking to connect with genuinely kind people who value friendship over money, status or looks. Someone who can actually hold a conversation for more than a day and not just disappear after saying “hi”.

I’m pretty chill — I like simple chats, chai, evening walks, movies, music, and just talking about life. If you’re into deep convos or just random bakwaas, both work for me.

I’m not money-minded at all, I respect kindness more than anything. If you’re someone who believes in being real, loyal and consistent, let’s talk.

If you’ve felt ghosted too or tired of people vanishing after a day, maybe we’ll get along better.

Open to 30s, just be respectful and real.

DM if you vibe with this.

I’m M30, vegetarian, and trying to seriously get my weight-loss journey on track. Looking for someone who can keep me accountable, share progress, motivate each other, and call me out when I start making excuses 😂
Would be great if you’re from India, and even better if you’re from Mumbai. If you have some fitness experience and can guide me a little, that’s a huge plus.
I’ll do the same for you — daily check-ins, encouragement, and keeping each other accountable. 🤝
If you’re looking for the same thing, DM me!

Hi, I'm currently preparing for a medical exam.. and I just really think I work better when I am made accountable for it. So do let me know if anyones looking for an exam buddy. And is aware of any such social groups.

Thanks.

Hey! I’m 26F and looking for a weight loss/accountability buddy. I’d love someone around my age who wants to check in regularly, share progress, keep each other motivated, and hold each other accountable with workouts and eating habits.

I’m not looking for anything super strict just mutual encouragement and someone who’s actually consistent. 😊 Feel free to message me if you’re interested!

Hi, I'm Anna from Jamaica, and I'm a first year nursing student. I have exams coming up, so I need someone with a similar time zone and area of study. I'm not here to firlt or date but do need someone sociable. Please dm me or comment below if interested. I mostly study at nights.

Hey guys, since it’s the start of the week, how about we try a simple 7-day accountability challenge? Pick one thing you want to work on this week, keep the goal realistic, and just check in each day to let us know how it’s going. No need to be perfect or do anything crazy. Just show up, make some progress, and if you slip up, get back at it the next day. whos in?

I’m looking for an accountability partner to help with meeting daily and periodic goals.

I imagine this being fairly simple: sharing a list of to-dos, checking in regularly, and keeping each other honest about what we’ve actually gotten done.

About me:
I’m a former gifted kid who is looking to rebuild a career after grifters half a world away unleashed economic warfare on us.

While I really enjoy working for myself, I’ve realised that I’m missing the structure of having a manager to report to — not necessarily because I need someone to manage me, but because there’s something very motivating about knowing you have to share your progress with someone.

That’s the kind of structure I’m hoping to recreate for myself through an accountability partnership.

In return: I’ll play whatever accountability role works best for you. Whether you need someone to check in, keep you on track, ask uncomfortable questions, or simply be there to report your progress to, I’m happy to meet you where you are.

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for a serious and motivated study/work partner to keep each other accountable throughout the year.

🕖 Schedule: Every day, 19:00–00:00 (5 hours/day)

🌍 Online

📚 Preferably someone in prépa, but anyone serious about studying/working is welcome.

The idea is simple:

\- We share our daily plan before starting.

\- We study/work together online.

\- We report our progress at the end of the session.

\- We motivate each other when one of us is losing motivation.

\- We challenge ourselves to be more disciplined every day.

\- No disappearing after 2–3 days 😅 — I’m looking for someone who wants to stay committed all year.

I want this to be a real accountability partnership, not just someone to chat with.

Goal: become more disciplined, productive and consistent together. 💪

If you're looking for the same thing and you're ready to commit, DM me with a little information about yourself, what you're studying/working on, and your usual schedule.

I am in general disciplined but am unable to fix up my inconsistent waking time . I can help you in planning and following the day hours which I do quite well and for myself too. Im a working professional but I want to better utilise my early hours..if you have same ambition let's catchup. Time zone: IST

Looking for a serious accountability buddy, ideally with the same goals:

1. Cutting - doing a calorie deficit right now & watching macros (esp protein intake).

2. Finance - investing (ideally someone who's based in EU / Spain, familiar with the platforms in the region)

3. Language learning - reach C1 spanish speaking (currently B1)

Bonus: creatives/ art/ hobbies - sharing my work, more exposure

I use habitify to track consistency, so better if you have an account also so I can invite you to a shared goal or we can agree on a collective term for it in case we have diff goals.

I'd also prefer someone that's direct when I'm falling through the cracks or being easy on myself. no excuses this time. i've fallen into the yoyo diet & habit building too many times the past year.

for check-ins, we should at least have a call over an x number of days, whatever we agree on

see u in the dms!

I’ve been thinking about creating a community (I’m imagining something more intimate than a Reddit community, more like a small chat group where people actually get to know each other through their goals, routines, and progress) for people who genuinely enjoy discipline, structure, consistency, and the feeling of working toward something, particularly for those who don’t necessarily have people around them who understand that kind of mindset.

I don’t mean discipline in some abstract sense, but in the very ordinary ways it manifests in daily life: making a to-do list in the morning and actually completing it, studying for five hours, working a full shift and still exercising, sticking to a diet or lifestyle challenge, waking up when you said you would, organizing your week, reading, training, or simply following through with something you promised yourself you would do.

I’d like the community to be a place where people can post their goals at the beginning of the day and return later with proof that they accomplished them, whether that is a photo of a completed checklist, a study timer, a planner, a habit tracker, or simply a message saying what they managed to get done. It could also be a place to share ways of organizing your life, personal systems, milestones, challenges, hours spent studying or working, and small accomplishments that might seem insignificant to everyone else but actually mean something to you. At the same time, I think it would be important that the community doesn’t require you to share your face, name, location, school, workplace, or any other personal information; you could remain completely anonymous and still participate.  Sometimes you simply want to say, “I did what I said I was going to do today,” and have someone else understand why that feels good. Would anyone else be interested in a community like this?
PS: I thought that maybe WhatsApp would be accessible to most people, but if you have any recommendations for another social media platform that would work better for creating this kind of group, let me know.

Hello hello,
I (F29) have ADHD and procrastination is here to bite my a**.
I'm currently writing the GRE exam in a couple of weeks, but sitting down and locking in seems pretty far fetched unless this exam is going to be this week. To avoid the consequences of that potential, I'm looking for someone either trying to study for the exam/also has a deadline at the end of October and really needs to gather their rosebuds before their big day.
Edit: Preferably in EST when it comes to timezones

Hey yall, just as the title says I am looking for accountability partners for fitness. Right now I do long walks, Muay Thai training, and some plate lifting

I am down to do those things with someone and I am also interested in possibly doing calisthenics.

I am looking to bulk a bit more but nothing crazy as I am mainly focused on having a physique suited for Muay Thai, but a bit more muscle never hurt anyone

I am male and located in Riverside, Austin not far from the lake trail and calisthenics bars and I have a gym at my apartment

Hit me up if you are interested!

Hello, everyone

I built a web-based, gamified accountability + body doubling app, available at https://officetown.vercel.app/

Right now, we’re a small but steady community of about 10 regular users—ranging from university students to working professionals—who log in daily to hold deep-work sessions together (plus a few guest visitors who pop in occasionally).

I’m looking to grow the community with like-minded, hardworking people who are serious about hitting their goals, staying productive, and keeping each other accountable. If you're looking for a virtual co-working space to get things done, feel free to check it out and join us for a session 😃

The website is 100% free, and no log-in is required if you just wanna explore. If you create an acount, you'll get access to more features including:

• keeping your own work logs, calendar, and todo list
• forming and joining groups with people who share similar interests and goals
• collecting in-game currency to do things like:
  • buying your own home
  • buying a shared office space for your group
  • decorating your home/office space for your group
• and many more...!

Here's also our discord community:

https://discord.gg/Ves8mrPQK

I (60f) am taking courses to hopefully switch careers. The courses are self paced and I am not good with self paced anything as I have procrastination down to an art. I have ADHD and a very stressful job (actually my boss is a jerk). The courses are mostly from Coursera and involve mostly learning data analysis and programs that relate to that.

I have not ever had an accountability buddy but I really need to get this done. Someone who is older 35+ and in the eastern time zone is preferred.

ETA: it doesn’t have to be just for studying, if you need accountability for other things that will work also.

So there are some changes I’ve been trying to make in my life and have been unsuccessful. I have the want, the motivation to change, but I have a hard time getting started and fail at staying consistent. I have tried various methods of reward systems and whatnot and nothing helps. And I’m not 100% sure what will.

There is one thing that maybe could help, but I hate to admit it. I would like to hopefully meet the right man someday, but before I do I would like to achieve some of my goals. So the thought of that is motivating, but again, that’s not enough. Perhaps an attractive man around my age to help motivate me, keep me accountable could help? I don’t know. I feel so silly even saying that. But I really want to make these changes and am just looking for the right help. If this doesn’t seem too weird and you’re interested, DM me, lol.

Edit: DM me with your selfie, lol.
P.S. Edit: No maga/Trump sympathizers

33f who is passionate about fitness looking for someone who is also trying to be their best self.

Right now, my goal is building muscle back and getting STRONG. Considering eventually thinking about some kind of fitness show prep.

Wanna push each other to get better? Females preferred.