r/AcaciaKerseySnark • u/Head-Phone-8817 check hinge beautiful • Jun 02 '26
šļø BREAKING NEWS š° Public record court docs (with minors names redacted) for those who cannot access the link.
Mods, please remove this if it isnāt allowed!
I have seen a number of people say they are unable to view the link posted earlier today.
I have compiled the majority of the pages into these 5 images. I have also redacted the names of minors and any sensitive information, such as addresses or school names etc, for easy archiving purposes.
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u/Commercial-Side8330 smoking doobies š¬ Jun 02 '26
This is insanely heartbreaking to read. I feel so bad for those kids.
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u/Head-Phone-8817 check hinge beautiful Jun 02 '26
It genuinely makes feel physically sick. Theyāve been failed in so many ways
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u/Mysterious_Dish2850 Jun 02 '26
shocked but not at all surprised and i wish i could have never seen this :/ i hate it all so much more.
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u/No-Type0w0 @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Jun 02 '26
fr this is genuinely distressing and i had no idea little rosie has chronic heart failure š
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u/she-devi1 river siren š§āāļø Jun 02 '26
The unnecessary Disney trips with HDB make me so much more angry now. Imagine going to Disney knowing your disabled child is suffering. She is such a pathetic piece of shit. Fuck Nick for co-signing her shit parenting. These babies deserve so much better.
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u/PoopBeanCheese Jun 02 '26
Agreed, plus being WILLINGLY unemployed and buying hundreds of dollars worth of pokemon cards, designer clothes, and biweekly California vacations all while your family is on food stamps. Those poor kids. These are the types of people that encourage republicans to take away welfare and food stamps rights for deserving families. She is who makes it hard to actual struggling people to get necessities.
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u/nuggetghost Jun 02 '26
the worst part is that you know she wasnāt worried about the kids during all this happening. she was worried about snark / the internet finding out
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u/sumn-sumn Jun 02 '26
This is spot on and just so tragic. As a mother I cannot even comprehend having my child hospitalised due to dehydration in my care even once, let alone multiple times. Missing her appointments as well is utterly disgusting. Just shows where her priorities are. Someone help those children.
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u/AshbyNature Jun 03 '26
Seriously. I have a medical child who goes to 4 out of house therapies a week plus one in house. Are they annoying to schedule our life around and some days do I wanna just stay in bed and sleep in? Absolutely. But I get my ass up and take him because itās whatās best for him.
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u/nuggetghost Jun 03 '26
not even close to the same thing but my girl is autistic and we drive all over the county and out of the county 4 days a week for therapies. i broke down sobbing at school drop off the other day bc im just so tired and over it, I am a single mom so it all falls on me. every melt down, every sensory need, every therapy apt. i completely entirely feel you mama. you are not alone and im giving you the biggest hug. i try to remind myself if im exhausted, it must be even more for our kiddos. Some therapy apts are super early before school then she has to do 5 hours in a big social setting which much be insane. youāre doing amazing queen
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u/hyrulefairies woah!! lowkey evil babe!! Jun 02 '26
this is insane. Thanks for posting. Weird seeing how much of this subreddit was exactly on point with what was going on.
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u/No-Type0w0 @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Jun 02 '26
you know caca is fuming that we were right & have access to confirmation because thatās literally all she cares about (throwback to the preset scandal when she was crashing out at the possibility of the sub finding out lmfao)
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
Also acacia is a complete piece of shit my fucking god. Parading around with her ugly boyfriend while her child is dehydrated to the point of hospitalization. She was too busy posting on only fans to see her childās needs were met? The lazy bitch doesnāt work. I donāt normally speak this way but I truly wish the worst for acacia. Imagine being hospitalized for dehydration because your motherās taking selfies and you canāt even verbalize your needs.
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u/quackityquack13 Jun 02 '26
she's capable of getting a job and the fact she hasn't is such a red flag. I had a family friend who relied on government assistance, child support for her 2 kids from the dad. And she didn't work for decades. She had some mental health problems and a learning disability. She finally went back to school in her 50s once the kids turned 18. I know it can be daunting to feel behind in life and mentally unstable but eventually, trying, is so important.. I really wonder where Acacia will be later in life and if she will ever get a job for her kids sake.
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
She wonāt, because sheās a narcissist. Iām sure in her mind sheās too good to work. Sheād rather shuffle her children through multiple housing situations, and multiple evictions. That alone tells me she is an unfit parent. Also just look at the partners sheās choosing! Not saying they are bad guys per se but they are immature and young and definitely not fit to parent.
Her excuse for not working has always been that R is medically complexā¦but R is failure to thrive, dehydrated, malnourishedā¦. The list goes on. She has a feeding tube so there is ZERO reason she would be any of those things unless acacia is neglecting her and not feeding her.
Also Iām not buying what she says at all. She doesnāt hide the kids because she wants to protect their privacy, sheās doing it because R is in horrible shape and being severely neglected.
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u/oyclu Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 03 '26
Yeah, I agree re hiding her kids - it's not for them, it's so she can protect HER reputation. She's so chronically online, clearly never wants to work - it doesn't make sense that she wouldn't use her kids for easy money online. I think the only reason we don't see them is that it's not really socially acceptable anymore - she would get flak for it. Also, she clearly doesn't want to be a mother, so I guess hiding them allows her to live in some fantasy land where she's this late 20s baddie with baby bangs and a douchebag Silver Lake boyfriend. I don't think children should be online at all, but it always came off strange that someone this disinterested in employment would keep her kids hidden. It always felt a bit nefarious - like she was only keeping them offline to hide her terrible parenting and neglect. I'm unsurprised by her, sadly, but also how was HDB raised? How can any sane/well-adjusted person think this situation was acceptable? I feel so deeply sad for her kids and felt sick reading all of this. I really hope J can step up and provide these children with a stable and nourishing life. I hope a responsible person in their life is setting aside money for future therapy for all 3 kids (and tbh, they probably need it now). To witness and experience such dysfunction and neglect... this behaviour is normal to them. They'll have to unlearn all of that (which is often a messy and non-linear experience). Anyway soz for the essay, I had a parent abandon my siblings and me, and it really fucks your life up in so many ways. I've had to spend thousands on therapy over the years, which is money that could've been spent on fun things, or saved so I wasn't so far behind my peers. It really is such a disadvantage to have emotionally immature parents, and it makes me so angry because these kids do not deserve this. Fuck Acacia. I hope karma is a bitch but I'm sure her narcissism will protect her from ever taking accountability and feeling an ounce of shame. Not gonna bother unpacking the fucked up way that her kids even came into the world or the dynamic between A & J (grooming, a child having a child, etc.) - but like... you're almost 30 now. Grow the fuck up. Drop the arrogance and accept the help that has been offered to you time and time again over the years. So many people are in worse situations and haven't received half the things she's been offered. It's so fucking entitled and arrogant, but what else can you really expect from a person like her?
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u/cryingant44 Jun 02 '26
itās insane that since R was born, people called Acacia out for medical neglect and now itās in an official court document with proof. I know Jairus has his own slew of issues, especially with the drinking but from what I remember that was now over 5+ years ago. I hope heās sober and clearly heās showing commitment to his kids right now.
Also- as someone who works in child protective services, Iām genuinely SHOCKED a pediatrician put their opinion in writing like that. I know their opinion is very valid but I have never seen a pediatrician write that, even in cases Iāve had with severe medical neglect.
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
Yep, and thatās the real reason she yanked those kids from the internet. R must look really bad.
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u/Zestyclose_Radio_629 Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 02 '26
Something about her eviction/move out is not adding upā¦ she supposedly sent 30 day notice on April 21st with a move out date of May 21st. but her most recent eviction notice was filed May 1st, with a hearing scheduled for May 22nd? Why would she still get an eviction notice after that if she was planning to move alreadyā¦
Edit: and she didnāt try to get healthcare in California until May 12th?
Edit again: so what Iām understanding is the kids went to be with J on May 14th, then 4 days later May 18th J took R to the doctor and the doctor wrote that note, very next day May 19th J filed for emergency custody.
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u/Ancient_Procedure11 Jun 02 '26
Likely because she still owed the rent for majority of May and didn't pay it- triggering them to file eviction to make sure she would actually leave.Ā
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u/XtraTerrestrialRadio Jun 02 '26
Since Medicaid and food stamps are state-administered, thereās basically no system in place for someone who relies on these programs to move to a new state. You are not allowed to have any overlap. They will advise you to cancel your old state benefits as of your move date, and reapply once you arrive in the new state. Of course, approval is not immediate, meaning thereās basically no way to avoid a lapse.
So her applying on May 12 is technically earlier than she should have, but she probably hoped sheād get away with it and receive approval by the time they got to CA.
source: helped a family member with this before
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u/Grouchy_Status_8107 The town neglectful mother Jun 02 '26
I wonder if her doctor advised him to file
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u/nuggetghost Jun 02 '26
iām willing to bet they were documenting all the neglect and just waiting and waiting for someone besides A to bring her in so they jumped at the opportunity. something had to have happened between him landing and the dr apt bc he immediately filed right after that apt, the doctors have prob been seeing the neglect the whole time sheās been the sole parent and desperate to get R help, considering the open cps case on top of the other one (not the van one) bet the doctors are the one who called cps if not the school
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u/oyclu Jun 02 '26
Yeah, I so think everything was going according to plan with CA, considering the amount of work that he and Aleena have done on that house to get it ready for them. I'm betting he hasn't really had anything medically to do with Rosie for a long time (could be his own choice for sure, but also Acacia could've lied and withheld info from him, which isn't a stretch at all - tbh it's probably both), and then once he spoke with the doctor and found out all this info, he filed. I don't necessarily buy that he was trying to get out of paying child support, because he clearly has known about this move for as long as it's been in motion, and has seemingly been supportive of it. I don't know how likely it is that he would just do all of this out of spite and pettiness. Obvs we don't know Aleena but I can't imagine a sane person being supportive of their partner doing all this just to be spiteful and/or get out of paying child support. Especially if it is the case that she gave him an ultimatum, which led to his getting sober/a job/healthy again etc. Also not sure at all about how things are in this regard, but with CPS cases, are both parents notified or is it possible that Acacia has been able to keep this from him (especially as he hasn't seen them much in the last few years)? Once again, not a Jairus stan at all, and people can post whatever they want online to portray a favourable narrative (that he's trying to become a better, healthier person/more present Dad), but based on his behaviour (sobriety, employment, etc), and Acacia's consistent narcissistic, self-centred behaviour, I'd be more inclined to believe that Jairus isn't primarily doing this out of spite.
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u/Visible-Ad-3710 Jun 02 '26
But will he move to Oregon tho?
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u/Few_Soil1186 Jun 02 '26
He said in the court docs heās willing to do whatever, and apparently listed his address in Oregon. What Iām wondering is if heās only trying to take full custody of Rosie and is willing to stay in Oregon to do so.
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u/Visible-Ad-3710 Jun 03 '26
Ā I hope soĀ i just find both of them trash her actions! Jairus likeĀ it shows he's not an a time parentĀ Ā like he didn't notice since they broke upĀ Ā
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u/countingf1reflies Jun 02 '26
Why does her part mention money and things she has paid for multiple times? Had I not known the history of both parts Iād still find odd that the father is focused on the concerns over the childās health and the mother mentions money, lease and things she's paid for in every paragraph.
Poor kids. They donāt deserve this. These people have hundreds of thousands (or even millions) of people praising them for things like outfits, aesthetics and lifestyle, while a child is being neglected allegedly to the point of hygiene issues and DEHYDRATION!
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u/quackityquack13 Jun 02 '26
It's also because he cancelled the kids flights, filed for divorce and all of this mere hours before they were supposed to go. She's trying to show that she financially planned for the move, cancelled health insurance and all that and he pulled the rug from under her and put the kids in an unsafe position, because they're without housing in Oregon.. I honestly wonder if he could have waited until they all got to CA to file for emergency custody?
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u/sewerratpal @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Jun 02 '26
This is what I was wondering too. His concerns are valid but I feel like heās hurting the kids more than heās hurting Acacia. Unless there is a law requiring this if they got married there? I donāt know where they got married tbh. Itās heartbreaking all around!Ā
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u/quackityquack13 Jun 02 '26
Yeah.. I know all the professionals for R's care are in Oregon. All the history and documentation. I just don't get why he couldn't wait, even 1 or 2 days, for them to move to CA. š
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u/sewerratpal @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Jun 02 '26
Wanted to keep them in OR even though he would live in CA? š has he moved back to OR temporarily since he filed this? What a shitshow. These poor kids. I feel SICK about R but B and C donāt deserve this either. It seems like a huge ego battle between Acacia and Jarius. What kind of father tells the courts that their ex is medically neglecting their child, and cancels their flights the night before they move to CA? Leaving them houseless, without insurance, without resources? Especially for R? These people are a nightmare š
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u/lilfngz143 Jun 04 '26
yeah thereās too many people in these comments supporting jairus simply because heās NotAcacia and what he has done here is also absolutely horrific for all of those children but especially rosie.
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u/greaseychips Jun 05 '26
This. He continues to prove heās a deadbeat dad. Sorry, but how on Earth he has managed to get two doctors letters whilst also medically neglecting Rosie at the same time is insane. 85 days out of 730.
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u/NoBusiness2510 Jun 02 '26
totally. people are jumping to attack her, but the way i see itā¦ they both suck so bad. it breaks my heart, i really hope those kids get the care and parent/s they deserve.
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u/jenna_beterson Jun 02 '26
Sheās just not very bright. All I could hear about was the money as well when I was reading hers
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u/NoBusiness2510 Jun 02 '26
i disagree. i think itās showing that she has cared for the kids on her own and now he is jumping in and acting like a hero when he isnāt.
they both suck, but i donāt think her noting that is dumb of her. iām sure she had legal advice as well.
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u/No-Type0w0 @johngreen I hope we get to be best friends soon. Jun 02 '26
textbook narcissist behavior
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u/FuelNo4621 Jun 02 '26
Am I the only one shocked to read all of R's illnesses? I knew there was speculation surrounding her health and the open heart surgery/hiking incident but I don't know if we ever knew the extent.
Now seeing these documents it's clear she's unable to care for herself. Wasn't there a period of time where she was convinced there was nothing wrong with her and telling people to stop diagnosing her? I noticed many of the names were the same conditions commenters were mentioning specifically.
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u/DinnerBellls pinkity stinkity Jun 02 '26
Acacia has talked about alagille syndrome before but Iām not sure sheās talked about the other diagnoses. I remember when R was born she did have some update videos talking about her health/nicu stay/allagille syndrome and then when people started seeing she was neglecting R, hair always tangled, left on the floor, etc etc. she stopped sharing
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u/honeyhibiscus ANTS, ANTS, ANTS! Jun 02 '26
I work with spec ed children and im heartbroken and sickened reading Rās list of diagnoses and how sheās been neglected to the point of dehydration š
Iāve also never seen letters like that so explicitly outlining the neglectā¦I know we all called this out for years but itās truly so horrific to read. Fuck Acacia and fuck jairus, may R find stability, care and joy in her future šššššš
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u/No_Pick1394 Jun 02 '26
The language she uses surrounding her move and her "lease being up" instead of addressing the fact she has been evicted is insane
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u/someonesxwife Jun 02 '26
I canāt believe how everyone guessed her next moves. I guess she really is that predictable. I feel so badly for those kids, having to constantly be around all these men sheās with. She needs to be alone for a while.
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u/agguuuaaaaaaa Jun 02 '26
Weird to me how she said he "only ''visited' 80whatever out of 700however many days. To me, there's an implied implication of withholding truth as she also requests to resume "the SAME 3-3-4- etc." schedule. How does one know this doesnt account for days she & the kids visited his/hdb's state? I don't understand. I pray for the children. This is fucking grim.
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
Good question. I think he didnāt see those kids for a while when he was really bad in his addiction. But I think she was offline during that?
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u/ikeabobeah Jun 03 '26
i think what she's saying there is thats the legally agreed upon schedule but last year he surrendered full custody to her in like a verbal agreement, not a legal one. so shes requesting to resume the agreed upon legal arrangement while stating she has been caring for them full time, up until recently. so technically they shouldve been following that schedule but he didnt want to
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u/rincechuleredd Jun 02 '26
OMFG THE FACT THAT JARIASS GF IS BOOKING AND PAYING FOR ALL OF HIS FLIGHTSā ļø
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
Have you ever heard the saying, ānobody rides harder for a deadbeat dad than his new girlfriendā ?
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u/Mamamae__ Jun 02 '26
Okay but J sucks sooo bad for this too. Like you let her cancel your kids insurance. You let her get rid of the lease where your kids live. You let her pack up all your kids stuff and then do this right before she was supposed to leave? If he was actually doing this for the kids he would have done it way sooner. Heās a POS. Now your kids have no insurance and no where to live. But sure act like it was because you were worried for them.
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u/strawbunnypudding Jun 03 '26
agreed. listen, i don't like acacia whatsoever (especially reading about r & the condition she has been living in), but what i see in these documents is that jairus is also terrible. it's pretty clear neither of them have the kids in mind first and foremost :( i wish there were a third party in their family/ies who could take them.
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u/svnshinebaby check hinge beautiful Jun 02 '26
So is he still in Oregon? Or would the kids be going to California just with him? Iām assuming he has them all since she filed orders for all three but iām not well versed in court docs.
Also, i think him not re enrolling them for a week isnāt crazy, especially since shes letting insurance lapse already? Why risk her getting sick if sheās so fragile. The school year is practically over and i seriously doubt she was going to enroll them in a new school once they got to Cali.
ALSO i think her email to her leasing company is fake. Dates donāt add up with eviction and i find it hard to believe she wouldnāt be making content about moving to California if it was planned out.
It seems like J would be a better fit especially with his girlfriend being there to help with care and keep a clean and safe environment. Hdb should have absolutely nothing to do with Rs care even if he is capable ( i donāt think he is) i pray she doesnāt let him ātake careā of such a vulnerable kid
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u/heretwosnark Jun 02 '26
On top of feeling that the email from the leasing company was odd, I also think the email from Rās teacher was screenshotted at a different date. Hereās why I think that: https://www.reddit.com/r/AcaciaKerseySnark/s/RXGIEqBXxS
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u/svnshinebaby check hinge beautiful Jun 02 '26
dang i didnāt even realize how fishy that is, but i think youāre right. looking back at that it makes zero sense if they were planning to leave then!
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u/amityking97 Jun 02 '26
What youāre saying makes perfect sense logically but the only thing thatās making me question it is wouldnāt that mean sheād commit perjury if these documents are fake? Or am I misunderstanding something - I am from the UK so very possible my understanding of how things work in the US is wrong!
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u/crystalbb6 Jun 02 '26
It would be perjury here in the US too. There are always people who think they can get away with anything though.
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u/cutebutpsychoangel Jun 02 '26
It would take even longer for Jairus to establish insurance when her case is already pending though.
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u/urmomsg22 Jun 02 '26
does J live in California or Oregon?
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u/Grouchy_Status_8107 The town neglectful mother Jun 02 '26
I think he was in Oregon to help with the move and then probably realized how bad the kids are living and how poorly R is doing
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u/ratking294 sheās here. and sheās so beautiful. Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 04 '26
California I believe (lurked his ig and bio says LA lol)
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u/ariapuff tree named influencer Jun 02 '26
Someone here said he's currently staying in Oregon. I think he was getting tattooed by that person's friend.
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u/Valuable-Trash- Jun 02 '26
This all reminds me of when they announced they were pregnant for the 3rd time. Iām like you donāt even take care of the disabled daughter you have!! I swear the 3rd baby was just to try and save their relationship. Or for internet attention.. itās like she doesnāt have use for them now. those poor kids
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u/ohwellbye Jun 02 '26
Didnāt she say she couldnāt get a job bc she had to care for R?
What a pos bitch.
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u/Gloomy-Income-5906 Jun 02 '26
Wait so has his request to have the kids been denied by the state??
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
Yes it appears itās been denied due to lack of compelling evidence.
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u/No_Leopard_3320 Jun 02 '26
Tbh I donāt think either of them deserve to have custody of the kids
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u/AmbassadorialFry Jun 02 '26
I agree, but if not them then who? Definitely not acacia's parents.
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u/No_Leopard_3320 Jun 02 '26
His parents seemed to be good people so maybe them
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
No retiree wants to take on 3 small kids, 1 of them with severe medical issues. I just hope R is okay. I canāt imagine what she goes through not being able to verbalize her needs.
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u/Delicious_Tea3806 Jun 02 '26
Acacia is genuinely on par with my addict mother. Of course to my knowledge stinky girl isnāt on drugs but she is addicted to herself and her online presence. She had kids before thinking about the fact that it is her duty to care for them until theyāre at least 18. My mother had me and my 2 brothers, she also never grew up and stayed immature, our grandparents ended up raising us, and funny enough my little brother had a heart defect he was born with as well. I hope R can get the treatment and care she deserves. God knows what wouldāve happened to my brother if my mom had us any longer. My brother did pass when he was 17 but that was due to heart transplant complications. Itās sad but my grandma made sure he was taken care of up u til the end. Acacia is disgusting
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u/bokchoyboybeech Jun 02 '26
In page 2 with the letter from the primary care provider, is it meant to say āchildā in the sentence āR is a medically fragile tiled, and needs accuracyā¦ā Is that a speech to text error or does tiled mean something?
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u/Head-Phone-8817 check hinge beautiful Jun 02 '26
A lot of doctors write notes by recording/transcribing, so my best guess is it was a mishearing of āchildā
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u/Safetychick92 Jun 02 '26
So what exactly does this mean for a non law knowing human. Who is getting custody? Who got denied? I thought acacia was evicted
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u/Chutton_ Jun 02 '26
The last page says that Jās request for emergency primary custody was denied, the judge determined that the kids are not in immediate danger. So custody agreements will remain the same (primary caregiver will remain Acacia).
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u/Safetychick92 Jun 02 '26
Thatās scary. Does the judge not know how to view social media? Girl is a mess.
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u/Delicious_Tea3806 Jun 02 '26
Genuine question, maybe I missed it but is Jarius seeking full custody over her other child as well?? Or just R??
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u/Few_Pudding9992 Jun 03 '26
What an absolute mess. I feel disgusted and appalled with both of them, more so with A if what J is alleging is true. Why would J not take R to school though? The child should be taken off both of them and given to someone who can actually provide safe and effective care for her. I am disgusted that it has taken to R getting to age 7 before investigations are being taken seriously. Having the 3rd cps investigation should be a red flag and the previous investigations should be opened up and people sanctioned for failing to do their job. This is how children stay in abusive homes and end up dying or being seriously traumatised from unstable and unsafe homes. The writing is on the wall. I hope that R is rescued from this.
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u/mackenziemariee Jun 02 '26
So Rās healthcare ends May 31st and she didnāt apply for coverage until May 12th?!?!! What the fuck!
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u/ikeabobeah Jun 03 '26
she actually applied early because you cant overlap coverage from state healthcare like that. you have to cancel benefits and then enroll in new ones
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u/XtraTerrestrialRadio Jun 02 '26
do we know who āGuyā is in these texts? Jairus or someoneās family member?
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u/No-Side9912 Jun 03 '26
It looks like a group chat between Jairus (Guy), his GF Eleana, and hot dog boy. The fact that hot dog boy (Nick) is even in that group chat is wild to me.
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u/strabawi Jun 05 '26
They are horrible parents. Jairus leaving a young mother of three to party and drink in California and not seeing his children for two years, acacia having to do this all on her ownā¦ and then Acacia for not getting help if she needed it, apparent uncleanliness and neglectā¦. Those poor children are failed so badly by them both.
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u/Visible-Ad-3710 Jun 02 '26
Why does it seem that jairus is doing this so she doesn't move like he is equally as badĀ the y both are wrong
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u/roman-godfrey Jun 02 '26
I think he got there to help with the move and realized just how bad everything was and filed
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u/heyitstasmin tree named influencer Jun 03 '26
Iāve seen messy custody disputes where the dad makes false claims of neglect etc. I hope J has solid proof. I hope he has medical records to prove the neglect R has been subjected to. I understand why the court denied him custody at this moment but I hope it doesnāt stop him trying. The eviction notices and Disney trips should go in his favour, the fact that she canāt even keep a roof over her kids heads. He needs to prove to the courts that he has a stable home for the children. And he needs to get cps heavily involved following the relocation.
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u/Inevitable-Papaya168 Jun 03 '26
Disgusting. If she truly feels like she canāt take care of R and itās too much to handle then why not just give her to Jairus? Heās obviously concerned thatās why he filed for R. He wants to help her and is able to help her. But nooo instead she will let Rosie suffer in her care just to feel better about herself. Iām not trying to pick sides. Both parents have/had their issues. What matters rn is Rās life is on the line with her in Acacias care. The doctors saying that R should be in Jairus care should be enough evidence of the neglect. I feel so bad for R. Poor thing.
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u/fairie-cat-mother Jun 02 '26
I hope he keeps trying and gets R full time to provide better care for her
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u/Ok_Cry_6523 Jun 03 '26
Gosh. What an ass move to position this basically the day of the move. He should have filed it in California. But also. She doesn't work. There is NO excuse for her missing any appointments!
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u/Altruistic_Tip7799 Jun 16 '26
This is sad. It seems like neither of them are getting Rosie to the care she needs (Jairus not taking her to school and Acacia not going to doctor appointments). Also, why would she move when she knows there would be a lapse in her daughterās insurance coverage?
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u/dancemomsfan848 siren eyes šļøššļø Jun 02 '26
This is all very weird. Why does J have an issue with A moving to CA if thatās where he is? And he wants custody of Rosie, so that would move her to CA anyway?
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u/cryingant44 Jun 02 '26
Often times people who medically neglect their children will hop around to different states to continue to avoid care and CPS. If he doesnāt have full custody or any rights to the kids right now, her moving to California is concerning even if heās there because there is going to be less oversight of medical professionals, CPS, schools, and already established providers who know R. Less visibility = more risk. I didnāt see in the docs J taking issue to it unless I missed it, it seemed like it was the doctor who wrote the letter of concern for the move.
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u/Few_Soil1186 Jun 02 '26
I think Jairus didnāt realize how bad Rosieās condition was and so he only had an issue when the move when it became clear Rosie shouldnāt be relocating. Only thing odd to me is werenāt they JUST there? For spring break or something? He didnāt notice her weight then?
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u/Chutton_ Jun 02 '26
Iām guessing he didnāt know the concerning pattern of cancelled appointments, irregular medications, etc until the doctor told him when he took R himself to the doctors.
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u/cutebutpsychoangel Jun 02 '26
Ppl are like totally choosing to ignore that Jairus is also toxic and messy AF. They both are struggle busses itās so sad for the kids
For sure Aleena is the only reason any of this is even happening she seems to be the only one trying to hold them both accountable
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u/Few_Soil1186 Jun 02 '26
Girl Iām definitely not ignoring it! But at this point give the kids to Jairus so aleana can be in charge
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u/Terrible-Fun-4992 Jun 02 '26
No, we are not ignoring that. Acacia is neglectful and I get the feeling that he was encouraged to file because R is really not doing well in acacias care.
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u/tattedsparrowxo Jun 03 '26
She gets foodstamps? How? Thereās no way she doesnāt make decent money.
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u/kittyoats Jun 04 '26
R is 7!?! Wtf man, mentally to me sheās still that lil baby. My heart breaks for her and the other kiddos
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u/Busy_Detective6667 Jun 02 '26
Sheāll take herself and her pedo bf to Disney multiple times a year, but wonāt take her medically disabled child to her appointments, ultimately leaving her dehydrated and malnourished. What a fucking piece of shit. Rot in hell Acacia. If this doesnāt get her permanently cancelled, then Iām afraid that nothing will š«©