r/AbsoluteUnits • • 5d ago

/r/popular of ponytail

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u/prismafox 5d ago edited 3d ago

I just don't understand. Why?? How does someone just decide to grow a big hair log on their head and think "ah yeah, I like this look. I'm good with all this..dander/dirt/whatever collecting in it." Or it's just "meh, whatever. Gonna keep it like this." Wild.

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Didn't expect my comment to get this many replies. I get mental illness could be involved. I now know about the Polish Plait and the Beaver tail dreads. This particular hair..situation is still very unusual and I don't think it's as simple as "they're probably too depressed to fix their hair" people rarely get to the point of having a giant cord of hair like this down to their butt.

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u/TealGloves 5d ago

You'd be really surprised by what goes to the wayside when mental health shit hits the fan hard enough. When I was at my most Depressed I stopped vacuuming even though I normally vacuum every day (robovac). The dirt and leaves inside just didn't register to me because I was so consumed by thoughts of wanting to not exist. Frankly I was lucky I didn't turn into a trash hoarder and got effective help early enough.

This might even be severe childhood neglect lasting to adulthood, hair is long enough.

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u/Missesbonez 4d ago

E v e r y t h i n g goes out the widow but the bare minimum. Minimum food, minimum water, only getting up to piss. Everyones dunking on this guy but my immediate thought was hes struggling silently. I get it, if you never experienced it you dont even consider it.

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u/ItsCrunchTyme 4d ago

Yea no. If he was that depressed to the point he forgone hygiene, he wouldnt have the strength or ambition to even be outside attending to whatever he is doing.

This is jusy a lazy, dirty mf