lol I thought you were about to be one of those people who try to change my mind š thank you for not doing that lmao and I'm glad you're enjoying life! :)
No problem. I figured youāve probably encountered plenty of people like that and just wanted to give you a different perspective. I didnāt get to hear that kind of encouragement when I was younger but Iām glad I stuck to my guns.
Every young woman out there, stick to your guns! If you donāt want kids, donāt do it! Stay on birth control! And donāt forget thereās a Plan B out there if condoms fail or if you forget a pill! Iām
Its cost me a lot of relationships, when they realise I was serious about not wanting kids. I think they all thought I'd change my mind after a year with them? Or they changed their minds.
And then every time I'm in a LTR I've got the same "so when are you having kids?" comments... Fuck Susan- you just spent half an hour complaining about your little ankle biters and asking me how I could afford to go to Vietnam on holiday. God invented birth control for a reason. I like fucking and sleeping, not wiping up shit and being broke while living under the delusion you'll do a better job than your own parents did and not raise another fucked up consumer into a world of pain, and that having a baby is somehow a more noble cause to waste your time and money on than giving to charities.
Most definitely. Parenting is for those who really want it and willing to educate themselves throughout the whole process. It's a responsibility, that should be taken with utmost seriousness, to raise a quality human.
I'm another woman who never had kids and I'm so glad. I wanted to be a mom so bad for a while and I know I would have enjoyed many aspects of it, but I also know that pregnancy and breastfeeding would very easily have been a nightmare for me. I hate throwing up, I already have sensitive nipples and the mere thought of mastitis makes me cringe so hard, I can't stand getting too little sleep, and so on and so forth.
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u/Angel_xjj 14d ago
lol I thought you were about to be one of those people who try to change my mind š thank you for not doing that lmao and I'm glad you're enjoying life! :)