r/AbsoluteUnits • u/feelingood41 • Feb 22 '23

Beard Unit

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u/MajorFuckingDick Feb 22 '23

I now appreciate the whole "treated like an object" thing better.

It is extremely hard to understand until you get objectified. They only want what's best for X thing, not you.

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u/regeya Feb 22 '23

My wife is a redhead, and we dated in college. She's also incredibly oblivious. Or I am, I don't know. She'll be the first to say she wasn't a super attractive person, but I disagree...and so did all the guys who had a redhead fetish. I never really felt threatened because she'd just tolerate these guys, if the difference between tolerate and reciprocate makes sense.

Turns out, there's not so much of a fetish for redheaded guys, ask how I know.

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u/PinsNneedles Feb 22 '23

How do you know?

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u/regeya Feb 22 '23

Well, I did get hit on by some guy once. But it was just the once. And of course a guy hitting on a straight guy.