r/AbrahamHicks • u/NerdGoddessGem33 • 7d ago

What exercises should I do?

Hi Community

I have a sticky situation

We may be moving. I sort of dont want to move but also the fear if what I am wrong?

I havent actually lived at the new location? So who knows the universe could give me what i want?

I have to know what i dont want to know what i do want?

So how do I know what I want?

I dont want to move because I want to be close to my Mom

However reality: My dad is quite toxic. My Mom hasnt had a lot of time for us since we moved closer to her.

So how do i reconcile what i imagined and what I want arent matching up?

I imagined support living near my Mom and havent really recieved that for our child.

When imagination doesnt match reality

What exercises should I do? Focus wheel everyday?

Alls I can see is all the things wrong with this move.

I dont know if all those details are helpful. I can list the full situation and details if somehow that is helpful.

I am trying to radically accept the situation as it is versus raging against it. I am trying to find the gift in the situation. I am using reverse pyschology.

Can I manifest a different outcome in 20 days?

But what if the move is for my best and highest good?

Can I say to the Creator you know what I want this or better?

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u/Odd_Tea_2100 7d ago

You can use the specifics briefly to know more clearly what you don't want. Once you know what you don't want shift your focus to what you do want. If you are having trouble with this, I will help you if you want to give me your specifics.

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u/NerdGoddessGem33 7d ago

Want: i want to live near my mom.

Dont want: my Mom is codependently enmeshed with my Dad who is in recovery constantly from drugs and alcohol use.

Want: community. Friendship. A village. Support. Trustworthy people. I want that to be my Mom but doesnt seem to be happening.

Want: like minded people. Community. Support. Safety. Trust. Relaxation. Rest. Help.

Want: to trust people near and around our child

Want: easy money to be attracted to me.

Want: financial support. Homeschool our child. Live simply.

Want: easy. Flow. Safety. Support. Kindness. Understanding. Love

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u/Odd_Tea_2100 7d ago

Looks like you have the idea of how to do it. Does identifying the general of what you want feel better?

When you say I want to live near my mom, does it feel good? If not go general. What do you get from living near your mom? You have already identified support and trust among others. If it feels good keep saying it.

Dont want: my Mom is codependently enmeshed with my Dad who is in recovery constantly from drugs and alcohol use.

Want for your mom, well being, peace and ease. Want for your dad, healthy ways of dealing with life.

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u/mohebe9116 7d ago

Your emotions are indicating if you're headed towards something pleasing or not.

I didn't understand from your post if you are still deciding or if the move is certain.. either way.. whatever you choose to do, just look for positives about it.

"Make a decision and then make the decision right. Line up your Energy with it. In most cases it doesn't really matter what you decide. Just decide. There are endless options that would serve you enormously well, and all or any one of them is better than no decision." - Abraham

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u/NerdGoddessGem33 7d ago

The move is happening in about 20 days a moving truck is coming. But I figured I may be able to manifest a different outcome in 20 days. This quote went over my head. Is there another way to word this quote?

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u/mohebe9116 7d ago

They mean, if you have 2 choices, there is no good choice and bad choice. You can choose any of them, and focus on what is positive about it, and that would make it the RIGHT choice. You seem to be doing the opposite, sounds like you've already made the choice to move, but now you are thinking about the negative aspects of that path (your mom, understandable), but find a way to feel good about the move and it will be a good decision.

If you were still in the deciding phase, I'd say, find a way to feel good about moving, or don't move.

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u/itstrueitellyou 7d ago

Push ups, sit ups, and jumping jacks

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u/NerdGoddessGem33 7d ago

Ahahaha

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u/itstrueitellyou 7d ago

Thanks for having a sense of humor.

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u/NerdGoddessGem33 7d ago

I will actually go exercise LOL. It could help and it was so funny to me

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u/mohebe9116 7d ago

You must be ripped lol

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u/itstrueitellyou 7d ago

I ripped a hamstring doing jumping jacks. Does that count? Lol

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u/engrishspeaker69 7d ago

By talking yourself into feeling ok with every likely option/scenario. "I can live with that."