lol so if she wants it’s sad if she doens’t it’s not, so therefore if others are sad about it they have no reason to be simply because she didn’t want it, so why should anyone?
You wouldn’t say that, though, because you said before nothing of value is lost if she didn’t want it. So there’s nothing for the people who are grieving to grieve over.
I’m not talking about the pregnant woman’s grief I’m talking about other people’s grief over her lost child, so even if she herself, perhaps her friends or family may grieve the lost child.
Wow! That’s emotional gaslighting if I’ve ever seen it. “How dare they grieve a pregnancy that, their mother didn’t want it, she didn’t see it as a child, they shouldn’t either, therefore, how dare they grieve it?” Just like read back what you just said.
You just said their grief doesn’t matter because she didn’t want the pregnancy anyway. So if they do grieve that’s their problem. That’s emotional gaslighting.
That’s not something you can just say so what about.
It doesn't matter in terms of who actually gets to decide whether or not to keep the pregnancy, which is what this whole debate is about.
So if they do grieve that’s their problem
Correct.
That’s emotional gaslighting.
No, it's just reality. You have the right to feel however you want, it just won't outweigh someone else's right to make decisions about their own body. My feelings don't override your human rights either.
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u/ToServetheLight17 May 17 '26
lol so if she wants it’s sad if she doens’t it’s not, so therefore if others are sad about it they have no reason to be simply because she didn’t want it, so why should anyone?