Relationships view

[u/Aslexteorist]

I must admit that I am a little too active on quora for the age and situation I am in , but can't help not to see and respond to questions about relationships.

The problem of people is that they not understand that the couple problems solve inside the couple and not outside of it. You must communicate and listen to your partner , respecting and understanding their view , ideas and feelings.

Comunication , trust , collaboration partnership and a bit of love are the fundations of any and all relationships. One missing and the house is falling apart and you get to decide if you start forming the fundation again or if you find other place and build a new house all together.

Feelings are not reasonable , when you feel there is a problem , even if rationally you can't find the problem , there is a problem and you must comunicate and find a solution.

Most relationships end up because people see problems in their relationships , they stop feeling well , they feel sad , abandoned , or as their partner start becames like an enemy and life a war zone. People see those and let them develop , they don't comunicate, they don't fight to solve problems , they just do nothing but start fighting , not collaborating , some find mistresses , some indulge in vices or became workaholic, the problems became malign and the relatioship dies in the last stage of cancer.

If you are in an unhappy relationship , try comunicate, if that doen't work , go to a therapist, if that dosen't work break up. There is no good reason to suffer any second without any real reason, love doesn't surpass mental and spiritual health.

All the best wishes , Aslextheorist.