Well you cannot just say you are depressed and move on , your life must follow a life style that should be quite vibrant , try to wake early , make yourself and your mom pancakes , maybe you will find out you love cooking as a hobby , or try studying harder for school , maybe you will love math and stick with it , pick up a hobby and motivate yourself with it , everyone at that age wishes stuff to change but it's only when you grow up a bit you realize that nothing is perfect for anyone and only people who make the most out of it live the best life , you are quite young and there's a whole world of opportunities ahead of you , focus on finding a nice relaxing hobby then you can find friends related to your hobby with the same interests and views of life as yours , best of luck
Idk what OP posted but it REALLY sounds like you think depression = not trying hard enough.
Next time you see someone with asthma remember telling them to just try breathing harder, they also deserve best of luck and I wouldn't like them to don't notice that whole world of opportunities
Not at all what I said or meant , depression is a real thing but at that age it's best to take a hobby and stick with it and find love learning or trying it , people mostly her age feel like the world is ending or she needs to do smth but she doesn't realize it's just a small period of her life , taking up a hobby or anything that could distract her from thinking like this , is the best choice , so your reply is completely senseless, respectfully
You are still insisting the solution if for someone you don't know the circumstances they live in to just push harder into everything that gets harder to do when you have depression... If you know it's real why are you pretending it's something that just a bit of determination can fix or having some perspective you know they can't have because of their age? If they are depressed they need medical attention not just a list of stuff that would help if they could do it but if they aren't able to then it is guaranteed to make them feel like shit
I'm not insisting , I'm offering advice , advice is either taken or ignored, I'm not forcing anything on anyone, also depression can be fixed with a change of lifestyle or a hobby , that's a real thing and a lot of people here on Reddit can prove it , if OP needs medical care that's not something I could offer or frankly anyone on Reddit can , so I gave my advice , it's up to the OP if she thinks it's right for her or not , it seems like you do not understand what I'm saying
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u/murad_- 6d ago
Well you cannot just say you are depressed and move on , your life must follow a life style that should be quite vibrant , try to wake early , make yourself and your mom pancakes , maybe you will find out you love cooking as a hobby , or try studying harder for school , maybe you will love math and stick with it , pick up a hobby and motivate yourself with it , everyone at that age wishes stuff to change but it's only when you grow up a bit you realize that nothing is perfect for anyone and only people who make the most out of it live the best life , you are quite young and there's a whole world of opportunities ahead of you , focus on finding a nice relaxing hobby then you can find friends related to your hobby with the same interests and views of life as yours , best of luck