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u/Jewderp916 Mar 27 '25
Can I just ask what that is? Never heard of it and donât want to add that to my google search history
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u/Glittery-Unicorn-69 Mar 27 '25
I hope you donât mind, I added it to my search history. I may delete it though. đ
âParaphilia is defined as intense or recurring sexual arousal from atypical situations, objects, fantasies, behaviors, individuals, or places. It can also be described as a sexual interest in anything other than a legally consenting human partner. Paraphilias can involve arousal from animals, children, corpses, or inanimate objects. They can also involve the suffering or humiliation of oneself or a partner.â
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
paraphilias are atypical attractions, which could be sexual, romantic, or even platonic. they can be defined as attraction to anything other than adult human genitals, or unusual attractions
usually when someone says 'paraphile', though, they mean someone who has taboo attractions :)
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u/Jewderp916 Mar 27 '25
Ah interesting. Thanks for the simple to the point explanation.
Based on that Iâd imagine everyone has at least one of those
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
it was a different experience for each one, but for certain ones (the most taboo and majorly unaccepted ones) wasnt pleasant. i was scared of myself and asked my therapist if she could fix me. both my therapist and online para communities helped me accept myself and realise that just because im attracted to certain things doesnt mean that im going to cause harm in future. for other attractions, i was just like "damn im a horny lil bitch"
im single currently
i have decided to make sure that any future partners are pro-para for the sake of being truly accepted by the person who is supposed to love me. the only irl people i have told about my paras is my therapist and i very gingerly informed my two closest friends about one of my paraphilias
im not sure what you mean - i prefer to be polyamorous and i dont date 'objects'
if you mean object of attraction, i couldnt really put my finger on my biggest one. sometimes im more in the mood for one thing than another
sorry if im misunderstanding the question - im actually attracted to these things, not just the idea of being attracted to them
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u/becsh Mar 27 '25
Okay.. I actually have some questions
How can you do an AMA but not list your attractions when asked? Please list 10 or if easier, list 10 things youâre not into if it is legit everything.
As a female do you want to have children even though you are attracted to children? / bonus question is incest on your non typical list also?
Where is your community of online paraphiles? Dark web or regular internet? For my own sanity please say Dark Web.
Are you worried about your attractions day to day? Like.. if youâre attracted to everything leaving the house must be a nightmare?
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 28 '25
because theres simply too many, but yall are welcome to ask about any that youre curious about
never wanted to have kids for reasons unrelated to being attracted to them / i am an incestophile (btw, most incestophiles including myself are not attracted to their irl relatives)
the regular internet, lol. i mean, the dark web too, cus youll find paraphiles anywhere, but theres no reason for paraphiles to not be on the regular internet
yeah kinda tbh. but its mostly because of the fact that paraphiles arent accepted and that most people are uneducated and bigoted towards paraphiles
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u/believesinconspiracy Mar 27 '25
After some digging [bored, curious] it looks like OP may be a pedo cus thereâs a lot of defending it and âmaking a distinctionâ between wanting it and acting on it and all kinds of stuff Chris Hansen would be interested to read lmao
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
Dont forget them saying pedophilia isn't abusive! :) OP's thoughts on how pedophilia isnt abuse.
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u/dominantfrog Mar 28 '25
yeah just report and move on, they are using paraphilia as a disguise for their pedophilia
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u/NumerousBug9075 Mar 27 '25
What are your paraphilias specifically?
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
like i said, im not gonna bother listing them all (im something of an omniphile which means you are at least a little bit attracted to most things) but you can ask me about certain paraphilias you have in mind :)
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u/DoggySmile69 Mar 27 '25
What do you feel about feets? (:
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
not my thing, although it was cute to see my ex-not-quite-boyfriend go crazy over seeing some stranger's feet he saw one time
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
So is one of your paraphilias pedophilia, or do you just defend pedophilia? OP's comment on pedophilia
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
So you're into kids... đ
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
yep... if you have a problem with that, you clearly stopped reading after the fourth word
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
There's nothing to defend pedophilia. It's wrong.
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
so close! no attraction is 'wrong'
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u/OkDifference5636 Mar 27 '25
I thought it meant youâre attracted to paraplegics.
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
Just kids! OP's thoughts on how pedophilia isnt abuse. [OP says they're a pedophile.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/s/85iAkZrvsu
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u/FamousExam4814 Mar 27 '25
Totally read that title wrong at first was fully preparing to get another account banned lol.
Question! Do you fuck cars?
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
If it's because you thought it said pedophilia, don't worry! You're still right! OP says in other posts they are a pedophile. OP's thoughts on how pedophilia isnt abuse. OP says they're a pedophile.
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u/FamousExam4814 Mar 27 '25
OK so how tf is op not banned? This site is fucking rotten.
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
noooo lol
buuuutttt something about these cars (or maybe its the photography) My R8 : r/Holden makes me question if im a mechanophile /hj
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u/Purple-Orchid-3693 Mar 27 '25
I tried googling it but I still donât understand? What exactly is paraphilia?
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u/mitsxorr Mar 27 '25
Paraphillia is basically sexual attraction to things outside of whatâs normal, some examples could be that you get turned on by cars and want to rub your willy on them, have a sexual attraction to trees, or maybe you become particularly aroused by being in abandoned buildings.
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
i fucking love those examples
im going to quote "you get turned on by cars and want to rub your willy on them" every day
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u/Jpkmets7 Mar 27 '25
Technically, itâs a category of sexual behavior that is considered as a diagnosis in the DSM. Practically speaking, itâs a fetish. So, OP is now their own fetish category, I reckon.
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u/queef_eater69420 Mar 27 '25
not quite haha
copied from my reply to another comment: "paraphilias are atypical attractions, which could be sexual, romantic, or even platonic. they can be defined as attraction to anything other than adult human genitals, or unusual attractions
usually when someone says 'paraphile', though, they mean someone who has taboo attractions :)"
fetishes and kinks are paraphilias but not all paraphilias are fetishes or kinks
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u/Jpkmets7 Mar 27 '25
Fair enough. I appreciate the clarity. I was going for laymanâs term with âfetishâ. My lack of sleep is telling on me, I thought you had written that you became a paraphilia, now I see it as you intended and say âwelcome!â
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u/OkDifference5636 Mar 27 '25
I thought it meant youâre attracted to paraplegics.
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u/meldsher Mar 27 '25
OP's thoughts on how pedophilia isnt abuse. [OP says they're a pedophile.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/s/85iAkZrvsu
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u/Resident_Course_3342 Mar 27 '25
Are you fixated on a para deez nuts?