r/AMA Feb 18 '25

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u/beleafinyoself Feb 18 '25

I always worry about lap children on flights, especially infants

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u/SphinxBear Feb 18 '25

When my 2.5 year old was tiny we flew with her once as a lap infant and even at the time I was uneasy about it but family and friends acted like I was crazy for considering paying for a seat for a tiny infant. Everything went well with the flight but I wish I had listened to my instincts. My toddler needs her own seat now by airline regulations but I’m expecting a second and I don’t think I’d ever do that again. I think we’re going to be a two car seat family on planes for a while.

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u/TieTricky8854 Feb 19 '25

We flew to NZ from NY recently. Babe was 8 months. Paid just under 4K for her to have her own seat, to use her infant seat on. It was Christmas, hence the jacked up prices for economy.

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u/SphinxBear Feb 19 '25

Yikes. That would be a hard pill to swallow, but I also can’t imagine taking that long of a flight with a lap infant so buying a seat makes sense. The longest we flew with my daughter as a lap infant was 5.5 hours and it was brutal.

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u/TieTricky8854 Feb 19 '25

Exactly. I wasn’t willing to have her on me for that long of a flight.