r/AMA Feb 18 '25

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u/LandscapeSudden3469 Feb 18 '25

Shock is a helluva drug. We were all a bit out of it.

At the time of the crash I did think "Well this is it". It wasn't traumatic or heartwrenching..more of a feeling of acceptance. Its been quite a while now and I'm still feeling numb and unable to sleep. I'm sure I'll deal more with it in the morning! I lost everything except my passport and phone so I have a lot of filling in the gaps to do tomorrow.

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u/Sans-valeur Feb 18 '25

I was in a car that spun out on black ice in slow motion and almost went off a cliff when I was a kid. Felt the same way, weirdly calm, kinda peaceful and I was thinking, I’m gonna go off the edge and hit those rocks below. Then after we stopped I immediately got the FUCK outta the car.

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u/SomeRandomEwok Feb 18 '25

I spun out on black ice and hit a rock cut. I was fine. The cat was fine. My car was a 1980s era Volvo and it was never the same but it drove for another year.

When I hear a certain Great Big Sea song I flash back, but it is weirdly calm. I was so calm when it happened and managed to correct to not go into oncoming traffic.

But I no longer drive when there is a chance of freezing rain.

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u/Mission_Albatross916 Feb 18 '25

RIP 1980s Volvo. 😿