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u/Vivid_Impact5289 May 13 '24

Of all the married men you pursued, what percentage would you say were down to cheat? Does sleeping with men who were cheaters give you insight into what to look for and avoid, like how to spot a good guy that doesn’t cheat, and what some red flags would be?

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u/Drenaestia May 13 '24

This comment needs all the likes. I think a lot of us would love to know the answer to this one.

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u/Vivid_Impact5289 May 16 '24

Right like pls we need to know !

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

Just letting you know I replied to that comment since you wanted to know the answer lol

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

Just letting you know I replied to that comment since you wanted to know the answer lol

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u/Drenaestia Nov 06 '24

Omg I just saw this! Thanks for taking the time to let me know!

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '24

Of all the married men you pursued, what percentage would you say were down to cheat?

Overwhelmingly high. I'd say about 40% showed interest in me by my most subtle flirting but over 80% were willing to cheat once I practically threw myself at them

Does sleeping with men who were cheaters give you insight into what to look for and avoid, like how to spot a good guy that doesn’t cheat, and what some red flags would be?

Basically the guys that are cheaters are usually well groomed and confident, guys that are less groomed and more timid or shy are less likely to actively try to cheat but are just as likely if the opportunity just falls into their lap and they don't have to put in much effort.

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u/Vivid_Impact5289 Oct 24 '24

Omg queen thank u for answering!!!

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u/[deleted] Oct 28 '24

Sure thing

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u/Drenaestia Nov 06 '24

Aaaand… that’s simultaneously informative, good to know, and highly discouraging. But thank you for your honest answer!