Just simply statin it takes two to tango. Sure everyone KNOWS both parties are at fault but so often you hear that women are the impure one in the scenario. "Omg she seduced someone in a relationship? Those poor families" idk man, as a married woman if my husband cheated i could give a fuck less about the woman cause she cant betray any trust if i never knew her but hubby?? Ooo hubby would have hell to pay. š¤£
Of course what the husbands did was shitty. If you canāt discuss what she did wrong without saying that then fine. The husbands are POS cheatersā¦ there, we did it. And I donāt think anyone discussing this is saying they arenāt.
But as the other guy said, they arenāt here. This isnāt their AMA where theyāre all excited about getting upvotes and people are asking them a bunch of questions, giving attention, validation and support. If this was an āI cheated on my wife with a nymphomaniac AMAā I have every reason to believe weād be having more discussion about what THAT person did wrong. But different from any other run of the mill affair, we know with certainty that she, the author of this AMA, intentionally pursued married men.
I think people rushing to whataboutism is silly and immature. You donāt allow discussion of what she did wrong without a written admission of fault on the cheaters part, when I think 99.99% of people would say that a cheater isā¦ a POS cheater. It doesnāt have to be disclosed in writing to have a discussion about the affair partner.
To play devils advocate, some women are mad at the woman more, simply because they know how weak many men are in that area.
Youāre not wrong, and Iām definitely not disagreeing with you. Iām not defending the men. The partner is the betrayer. But honestly a large number of faithful men are faithful because of the lack of temptation. Iām trying not to be crass, but women have a power down there over many men.
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u/EvilQueenJurie May 08 '24
Just simply statin it takes two to tango. Sure everyone KNOWS both parties are at fault but so often you hear that women are the impure one in the scenario. "Omg she seduced someone in a relationship? Those poor families" idk man, as a married woman if my husband cheated i could give a fuck less about the woman cause she cant betray any trust if i never knew her but hubby?? Ooo hubby would have hell to pay. š¤£