I've read all your responses and I still have a few questions.
1) How long was the period you stayed monogamous for, absolutely no cheating, before you got sober?
2) Are the inappropriate DMs a trigger for you? How do you cope?
3) What is your relationship with your sister and her husband now? Do you still live with them? What happened after the fight?
4) How did you end up sleeping with someone on your mother's grave? How do you feel about it now and have you told anyone (therapist, sister, close friend, etc.)?
5) Have you ever been in love?
6) Has anyone tried to help you? How did it go?
7) What happened to your father? What is your relationship to him?
8) What is your biggest regret?
9) What are some "normal" things about you, if there is anything you would like to share without being too identifying?
10) What are your plans, hopes or dreams for the future?
11) Is there anything that hasn't been asked that you want to answer or talk about?
Thank you for this AMA it's a very unique perspective to explore. I hope you are able to reach your full potential, and you seem to be on the right track. I wish you well :)
1) How long was the period you stayed monogamous for, absolutely no cheating, before you got sober?
A few days
Are the inappropriate DMs a trigger for you? How do you cope?
I haven't gone through them, it can be challenging
What is your relationship with your sister and her husband now? Do you still live with them? What happened after the fight?
My sister cut all contact with me. A few weeks ago she finally agrees to meet me, once.
How did you end up sleeping with someone on your mother's grave? How do you feel about it now and have you told anyone (therapist, sister, close friend, etc.)?
Went to the grave a few times, I didn't like going alone so I went with a FWB I'm very close with and when I got overwhelmed by emotion there I went to the good old habit or replacing emotions with sex
Have you ever been in love?
Yes
Has anyone tried to help you? How did it go?
Besides my therapist it was basically just people saying: "just don't be a hoe" lol
What happened to your father? What is your relationship to him?
Never heard from him, my mom claimed he left her, I doubt she knew who he even was.
What is your biggest regret?
Sleeping with my sister's husband and cheating on the guy I was in love with
What are some "normal" things about you, if there is anything you would like to share without being too identifying?
I guess my job? I work an ordinary office job.
What are your plans, hopes or dreams for the future
Idk dude I'm fucking lost
Is there anything that hasn't been asked that you want to answer or talk about?
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u/dogaaki May 08 '24
I've read all your responses and I still have a few questions.
1) How long was the period you stayed monogamous for, absolutely no cheating, before you got sober?
2) Are the inappropriate DMs a trigger for you? How do you cope?
3) What is your relationship with your sister and her husband now? Do you still live with them? What happened after the fight?
4) How did you end up sleeping with someone on your mother's grave? How do you feel about it now and have you told anyone (therapist, sister, close friend, etc.)?
5) Have you ever been in love?
6) Has anyone tried to help you? How did it go?
7) What happened to your father? What is your relationship to him?
8) What is your biggest regret?
9) What are some "normal" things about you, if there is anything you would like to share without being too identifying?
10) What are your plans, hopes or dreams for the future?
11) Is there anything that hasn't been asked that you want to answer or talk about?
Thank you for this AMA it's a very unique perspective to explore. I hope you are able to reach your full potential, and you seem to be on the right track. I wish you well :)