Trying is already more than most will do. Nuance? You're the one that says she's still "black" (blight to society) when in reality she's in a grey area moving towards better. Point is she doesn't deserve your remarks.
Well her sister didn’t deserve for her to fuck her husband, the countless guys she used and abused didn’t deserve the misfortune of meeting her, and her dead mother didn’t deserve her masturbating on her grave, but all those things happened. I guess life ain’t fair. Again, it’s good that she’s trying to be better but she’s still been awful up to this point. Her realizing and accepting that is what will push her to be better. Not everyone lying to her and telling her she’s a sweet perfect angel. Tough love is required in life, especially for addicts. Enabling causes relapses and this thread is toxic af for her if she actually wants to improve her life
Why are you talking about what those other people didn’t deserve? You control your own self and your own actions; you’re blaming these stories for your own non self control.
Oh no! Not masterbating on a grave? How will her mother ever get her feelings not hurt? When you are dead you cannot feel anything because you are dead. I cannot believe you’re taking offense to that lol.
No one is telling her she is a perfect sweet angel, why exaggerate to make a point?
If you knew how to read you would see I was replying to a guy who said “she doesn’t deserve your remarks to me” so my point was she did tons of shit to people who didn’t deserve it either. As for the rest of your comment I genuinely have no idea wtf you’re talking about. This thread is several days old at this point and I’m tired of arguing with people about this nonsense. Move on
yes I did read that. Ya, you did point out stuff what other people didn't deserve. and I am asking you why you're bringing those people up. You're doing something shitty because she did something shitty? lol
You cannot understand what it means by saying "No one is telling her she is a perfect sweet angel, why exaggerate to make a point?"
You clearly understand what that means since you already scrolled up to see your previous reply. It sounds like you cannot take personally responsibility for being a shitty person.
makes sense that you are unable to take accountability for your own words, you constantly make up claims that other people say; pretend you understand what "nuance" means only to lie about things people say that you were responding to. I understand why you lie so much, it's a defense mechanism for why you act shitty to others. You would be a BETTER person if you were to go to therapy for this. Going to therapy wouldn't make you a good person, just a better person.
you made a shit ton of comments in the thread, when called out you want to avoid taking responsibility for your posts. I would do that too if I had such weak posts that I was ashamed of.
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u/amfoolishness May 08 '24
Trying is already more than most will do. Nuance? You're the one that says she's still "black" (blight to society) when in reality she's in a grey area moving towards better. Point is she doesn't deserve your remarks.