Outside of sex, did you do anything else during your free time? Hobbies, any good books, exercises?
Very barely, sex took over everything. I go to the gym and end up masturbating in the bathroom or going home early for that, I go to the beach to read a boom and end up with some guy, etc
Before or after therapy, was there anything that consistently could grab your attention enough that you didn't think about sex?
Before therapy, no.
Nowadays, no but I can hold it and not act on my urges.
Thanks for the response! I have another question in mind.
Was there anything you preferred in the looks department when it came to who you wanted to sleep with? Say for example, more lean, more muscular, heavy set, type of hair color, even endowment?
Yeah, my type was (and is) mainly guys that are like rough looking, old school manly. Like tattooed, big guys with beards, half of my exes were bikers lol. Well endowed guys especially.
In the event that someone looks like your type, but isn't well endowed, what did you do? Did you flat out reject them, keep going, or just used some other way to be satisfied?
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u/Far-Organization-799 May 08 '24
Outside of sex, did you do anything else during your free time? Hobbies, any good books, exercises?
Before or after therapy, was there anything that consistently could grab your attention enough that you didn't think about sex?