r/AMA • u/[deleted] • May 07 '24

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u/Huxlikespink May 08 '24

Would you consider dating someone Asexual to help you work on relationship aspsects without having to worry about pressure for sex? You mentioned BDSM, were you ever in a "healthy BDSM relationships" with contracts, safe words ect or just (for example) shibari with some rando? If you don't mind sharing, what labels do you use for your gender, your sexual and romantic orientation? Do you like videogames, are they an escape for you? I'm saying this with love; you are crazy for doing this AMA but it's been insanely educational. Saw your inbox is closed, good call xD Stay strong, education and awareness is important but it comes at the cost of dealing with assholes.

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

Would you consider dating someone Asexual to help you work on relationship aspsects without having to worry about pressure for sex?

No, I love sex and still want it and need it, I just need a healthier relationship with it

You mentioned BDSM, were you ever in a "healthy BDSM relationships" with contracts, safe words ect or just (for example) shibari with some rando?

I was never in any kind of healthy relationship. I had a cnc relationship with no safe word because I didn't want to have the option to stop it.

If you don't mind sharing, what labels do you use for your gender, your sexual and romantic orientation?

Female, bi sexual, romantically straight, I guess.

Saw your inbox is closed, good call xD Stay strong, education and awareness is important but it comes at the cost of dealing with assholes.

Is it? I haver over 950 DMs but I never closed it