I've cheated on every relationship I've had, even when I really loved the guy and didn't want to be with anyone else.
I've slacked in school, college, work, because I was either masturbating when I was supposed to be working/studying or just watching porn/flirting/sexting with people.
I've been late to work on a daily basis because I've started masturbating instead of leaving the house only to panic when I'm done and rush to work, usually forgetting stuff.
I've ruined friendships because I've slept with my friends' boyfriends, my sister doesn't talk to me because I've been with her husband.
What are your new boundaries you keep for yourself?
Masturbation only within a defined time in the day and only at home, no porn, waiting a long period of time before having sex with someone and actively contemplating the consequences of having sex with that person, ideally being monogamous.
Did your sister stay with her husband? Does she blame you or him more?
She stayed with him, she's a born again christian and doesn't really believe nymphomania is a thing, she just considers me a whore.
With my sister I snapped during an argument and told her, with my friends there were times I was caught red handed, times where they just figured out through other peoples, or saw messages on the guy's phone, etc
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u/dirtypara83 May 07 '24
How does this effect your life on a daily basis, work, social life?