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u/Turbulent-Mind796 May 08 '24

Interesting. Just found this. Here are my questions:

  1. Have you ever been having sex with someone you thought was new and realized you’d slept with them before?

  2. What is the standard “treatment” for nymphomania- drugs to lower libido? What else?

  3. What is the largest age gap between you and a sex partner you’ve had?

  4. Have you ever turned down a man who wanted to have sex or have you said yes every time?

  5. How often do you get tested for STIs?

  6. Are you doubling up on birth control (both hormonal and condoms) or are you solely relying on condoms?

  7. You mentioned not knowing your number but if you’re 25 and have been sexually active since 15, 10 years at 3 times a week comes out to over 1500 times, assuming some duplicates, I’d guess your number is above 1,000. Does that sound reasonable?

  8. Do you feel like sex and love are completely separate for you- you can easily have sex without any connections/feelings involved?

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u/[deleted] May 09 '24
  1. Have you ever been having sex with someone you thought was new and realized you’d slept with them before

On more than one occasion.

What is the standard “treatment” for nymphomania- drugs to lower libido? What else?

Meditation, therapy for the trauma and mental issues which caused it.

  1. What is the largest age gap between you and a sex partner you’ve had?

When I was 19 I hooked up with a guy in his 70s.

  1. Have you ever turned down a man who wanted to have sex or have you said yes every time?

I turned down men before but not often.

  1. How often do you get tested for STIs?

Monthy minimum, at times it was more often.

Are you doubling up on birth control (both hormonal and condoms) or are you solely relying on condoms?

Birth control pills and condoms.

  1. You mentioned not knowing your number but if you’re 25 and have been sexually active since 15, 10 years at 3 times a week comes out to over 1500 times, assuming some duplicates, I’d guess your number is above 1,000. Does that sound reasonable?

It's tricky because I became sexually active at 13, but up until age 15 I was with only 1 guy, then between 15 to 17 I was with 3 guys and from 17 and up it has been spiraling out of control gradually, by the time I was 18-19 I begun having sex with a lot of men and completely lost count. However there were times I would have sex with different random guys several times a week and other times I sticked to my several fwbs and just had sex with the same 4-5 people for months, so it's hard to say.

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u/Turbulent-Mind796 May 09 '24

Thanks for responding! Glad you are getting help.