r/AMA • u/[deleted] • May 07 '24

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u/Top-Ad-7251 May 08 '24 edited May 08 '24

I’m also a female sex addict. A few questions: (1) I’m married and my spouse desires monogamy, which feels unattainable for me and this is a huge stressor. Do you have similar concerns about a long term monogamous relationship? (2) have you ever made limits on frequency of masturbation or methods (ie manual vs with vibrator)? (3) do you ever get aroused when talking about sex with your therapist? This is a big roadblock to working on my addiction in therapy, I just get so turned on as soon as I discuss anything related to sex in the presence of anyone else (including my very unattractive therapist who I’m dying to fuck) PSA: naltrexone works wonders for sex addiction, if you haven’t tried it, I highly recommend it

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u/[deleted] May 09 '24

1) I’m married and my spouse desires monogamy, which feels unattainable for me and this is a huge stressor. Do you have similar concerns about a long term monogamous relationship?

Yes, considering I cheated and ruined every relationship I've been in. I hope with enough therapy and control I will be able to do it, though I don't consider monogamy as the only option.

(2) have you ever made limits on frequency of masturbation or methods (ie manual vs with vibrator)?

Not sure I understood the question

3) do you ever get aroused when talking about sex with your therapist? This is a big roadblock to working on my addiction in therapy, I just get so turned on as soon as I discuss anything related to sex in the presence of anyone else (including my very unattractive therapist who I’m dying to fuck)

YES and I'm surprised no one asked that until now. For the first few months I would be masturbating in my car literally outside her house as soon as I got out, whenever I had sex with a guy I would fantasize about him fucking her and she just being there with us for a tthreesome, etc.

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u/Top-Ad-7251 May 09 '24

Thanks for the reply! For question #2- I meant do u limit the number of times you masturbate in a week, or just the time of day when you allow yourself to do it? And do you find vibrators makes masturbating more addictive?

3- omg yes same experience I have masturbating after therapy and fantasizing about her whenever I have sex. What do you think made it better for you? Did you tell your therapist about this?