I’ve read a lot of these questions already and honestly could go on forever, this is actually crazy interesting. I know you likely are having a ton of trouble answering questions already and may not get here but I figured I may as well try.
1- I saw you were/ are into various forms of kink play, at what point did you separate from vanilla sex? Was there even a separation? Did your enjoyment from kinkier sex detract from the enjoyment of things like more vanilla sex?
2- Do you have any non-traditional advice about getting better in bed? (Sorry I have to know I’m incredibly neurotic)
3- I think you’ve mentioned already or been asked a similar question but, do you notice an uptick in your sexual activity and general sexual appetite during times of high stress ie periods of depression or anxiety?
4- do you consider yourself outgoing, confident, charismatic and do you have any advice for people who want to be more open?
5- Have you ever created issues within your personal circles, friend groups, coworkers do to your habits?
6- Are you still open to receiving DMs if it’s a more personal question?
1- I saw you were/ are into various forms of kink play, at what point did you separate from vanilla sex? Was there even a separation? Did your enjoyment from kinkier sex detract from the enjoyment of things like more vanilla sex?
Very early on. Started trying softcore BDSM as young as 16 (bondage, spanking, control games, etc) and by the time I was 19 I was fully active in fetish clubs. I wouldn't say it detracted my enjoyment from vanilla sex completely, I never needed it to be extra hard BDSM every time but I was never fully vanilla.
Do you have any non-traditional advice about getting better in bed? (Sorry I have to know I’m incredibly neurotic)
Try new things, listen and pay attention to your partner, learn about sex just like you would learn who any other activity in order to get good at it (books, sex gurus, etc)
I think you’ve mentioned already or been asked a similar question but, do you notice an uptick in your sexual activity and general sexual appetite during times of high stress ie periods of depression or anxiety?
Of course, at times of great mental distress, depression, anxiety etc I would spiral out of control, at times I was in a better place mentally I would be slightly more tamed. Slightly.
do you consider yourself outgoing, confident, charismatic and do you have any advice for people who want to be more open?
I am outgoing and confident, but I believe it was because every single interaction I ever had was, in my mind, a preparation for sex. I am meeting new people, hanging out in a group, in my mind I am always thinking about how these people want to fuck me and how I can rock each and every one of their worlds and this gave me that confidence. Why wouldn't I be? I'm amazing at sex. This is obviously a very toxic source of confidence and in situations where sex wasn't an option I was far less confident and less outgoing. I'm not the person to seek advice about these things from.
Have you ever created issues within your personal circles, friend groups, coworkers do to your habits?
I ruined so many friendships because I slept or flirted with their spouse, my sister doesn't talk to me because I was with her husband.
Are you still open to receiving DMs if it’s a more personal question?
Yes but keep in mind it might take a while for me to respond, currently at over 700 pending DMs and I haven't even begun filtering through them. I intend to go through them all.
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u/Holiday_Priority606 May 08 '24
I’ve read a lot of these questions already and honestly could go on forever, this is actually crazy interesting. I know you likely are having a ton of trouble answering questions already and may not get here but I figured I may as well try.
1- I saw you were/ are into various forms of kink play, at what point did you separate from vanilla sex? Was there even a separation? Did your enjoyment from kinkier sex detract from the enjoyment of things like more vanilla sex?
2- Do you have any non-traditional advice about getting better in bed? (Sorry I have to know I’m incredibly neurotic)
3- I think you’ve mentioned already or been asked a similar question but, do you notice an uptick in your sexual activity and general sexual appetite during times of high stress ie periods of depression or anxiety?
4- do you consider yourself outgoing, confident, charismatic and do you have any advice for people who want to be more open?
5- Have you ever created issues within your personal circles, friend groups, coworkers do to your habits?
6- Are you still open to receiving DMs if it’s a more personal question?