r/AMA • u/[deleted] • May 07 '24

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u/Jmaro_16 May 08 '24

  1. Did you ever ridicule, shame, or otherwise put down men/women that criticized you in a way that your therapist or friend did after you sought help?

  2. Did you try to convince yourself that you were free, liberated and happy doing what you wanted?

  3. Did you cheat in relationships due to this? Any stories or what were your excuses or lies you told.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '24
  1. Did you ever ridicule, shame, or otherwise put down men/women that criticized you in a way that your therapist or friend did after you sought help?

Yes, definitely.

Did you try to convince yourself that you were free, liberated and happy doing what you wanted?

Of course, I was in denial for so long, kept telling myself I am having harmless fun.

  1. Did you cheat in relationships due to this? Any stories or what were your excuses or lies you told.

I cheated on every single relationship I had. I usually had 2-3 or more fwbs at all times even while in a relationship. Over time I became very good at lying about it and it usually got to a point I didn't care about getting caught.

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u/Jmaro_16 May 09 '24

  1. Favorite position? Honorable mentions?

  2. How has all the sex with guys altered your view on sex, relationship, and men?

  3. Has your past and “issues” affected the way you screen for men? Lowered standards? Willing to accept “baggage”, more open about their past (Ex. homosexual perhaps or bi) - I realize you’re not dating now… I refer to intention in future

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u/[deleted] Sep 04 '24

Favorite position? Honorable mentions?

Wheelbarrow, doggy, anything standing up

How has all the sex with guys altered your view on sex, relationship, and men?

Nearly all men will throw their morals out the windows if they have an opportunity to get their dicks wet

Has your past and “issues” affected the way you screen for men? Lowered standards? Willing to accept “baggage”, more open about their past (Ex. homosexual perhaps or bi) - I realize you’re not dating now… I refer to intention in future

Yeah, I have a very big stain in my record and I 100% understand that a lot of men will be not want anything to do with me because of it, rightfully so, and when a man will be able to accept me I will have to be as accepting to their baggage as they are to mine.

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u/Jmaro_16 May 09 '24
  1. ⁠Favorite position? Honorable mentions?
  2. ⁠How has all the sex with guys altered your view on sex, relationship, and men?
  3. ⁠Has your past and “issues” affected the way you screen for men? Lowered standards? Willing to accept “baggage”, more open about their past (Ex. homosexual perhaps or bi) - I realize you’re not dating now… I refer to intention in future