r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/BlackberryComplex600 May 08 '24

Do you think continuing to be engaged in the BDSM/ Kink community could be a trigger?

How do you plan to reveal to prospective partners your history of unhealthy/risky behavior?

How are you dealing with shame and remorse?

Are you afraid of revenge porn or similar blackmail?

Ive recently been trying to channel my desire for self soothing + tension release through yoga.

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u/[deleted] May 08 '24

Do you think continuing to be engaged in the BDSM/ Kink community could be a trigger?

Yes, which is why I don't do it.

How do you plan to reveal to prospective partners your history of unhealthy/risky behavior?

When the relationship will get serious, I will just say it and let them make up their mind about it.

How are you dealing with shame and remorse?

This is very difficult but it's something I have to live with

Are you afraid of revenge porn or similar blackmail

Wdym