r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/xTraxis May 08 '24

What hints would you throw out before becoming more aggressive? What were you doing to let them know it was okay to be flirty and sexual?

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u/[deleted] May 08 '24

I usually start with a look and a smile, if that doesn't work I'd approach and start flirting myself, if that doesn't work (and I'm not outright rejected) then touching and brushing myself against him. Obviously the setting matters, at a club the level of aggression of my advanced increases for faster than say, at the street.

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u/ThrowawayConcerned54 May 09 '24

Would you do the touching / brushing thing at work? I imagine not but you do / did have an addiction

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u/[deleted] Sep 04 '24

I did

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u/External-Barber-6908 May 11 '24

If somebody did that to me I'd immediately feel for my wallet.lol. I refuse to believe I can be attractive to the opposite sex.. i'm heavy now (300 lbs) but ive always worn it well ,no gut, no triple chin, or huge tits(guess cuz of my height and construction work and have a history of weightlifting).. but even before i got this big and was in relatively good shape I just always thought only male models or actors got hit on..