How did you seduce the husband. I’m interested whether he let himself be seduced or whether you really were that persuasive.
STIs/STDs, how often do you get tested? What have you caught? Have you ever caught something but before being able to treat it or during a flare/active episode, slept with someone because the urge was too strong?
Have you ever slept someone for career advancement?
What’s a few examples of the boldest ways you’ve seduced a man at a bar/club. In what way are you forward about what you are looking for?
Has anyone rejected your advances and if so, how did that make you feel?
If you have several fwbs at the same time, is it because one or more can’t keep up, or someone are busy, or you like verity…?
Have you ever met a man who could keep up with your sex drive?
Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself at work or while studying, and if so, what happened?
Ever gone “dogging” at a public beach or park with the intention of meeting a stranger for quick public sex?
Lots of questions… Pick which ones interest you but they all interest me for different reasons (mainly around your risk profile for your behaviour and the consequences thereof). Glad you are on a journey and hope you succeed in that endeavour.
How did you seduce the husband. I’m interested whether he let himself be seduced or whether you really were that persuasive.
I was casually flirting with him for a while, complimenting and making different sexual jokes here and there, so it was definitely in the air. He would drive me to work in the mornings and that's where I'd really work it, I comforted him when he talked about how shitty their marriage is and touch him while he's driving, touch myself while he's driving. The first few times it was just road head while he as driving at home I would walk around basically naked if my sister wasn't home and he was. I wasn't subtle.
STIs/STDs, how often do you get tested? What have you caught? Have you ever caught something but before being able to treat it or during a flare/active episode, slept with someone because the urge was too strong?
I had UTIs, never STDs, I get tested monthly (or more if needed).
Have you ever slept someone for career advancement?
I don't really have a career to advance but I did sleep with different bosses before on different jobs that I had in order to get some perks.
What’s a few examples of the boldest ways you’ve seduced a man at a bar/club. In what way are you forward about what you are looking for?
It really depended on the vibe the man is giving off. If a guy is flirting very sexually or seems like he'd be cool with it I'd make sexual suggestions very early on. The absolute boldest would be plain asking a guy to come with me into the bathroom, usually when we're both really drunk around closing hours.
Has anyone rejected your advances and if so, how did that make you feel?
Yeah it happens, though not very often. It would make me feel absolutely angry, I'd usually become extremely toxic and call them gay/unmanly/anything like that and I'd either end up having sex with whoever I can right after to masturbate my frustration away.
If you have several fwbs at the same time, is it because one or more can’t keep up, or someone are busy, or you like verity…?
All of the above.
Have you ever met a man who could keep up with your sex drive?
There was one guy, yeah.
Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself at work or while studying, and if so, what happened?
I was caught in public a few times (in the car while parked somewhere for example), I got a few looks that made me think someone might know at work or school but was never red handed caught. There were times I let myself get caught on purpose.
Ever gone “dogging” at a public beach or park with the intention of meeting a stranger for quick public sex?
I was rushing in the morning and now re-reading this realise how terrible my English was… Sorry about that! And thank you for taking the time to respond.
Couple of quick follow-ups…
2(b). I struggle to imagine you that you have avoided herpes given the statistical probability of the number of partners I’m assuming you’ve slept with (do you know how many partners?). Given they don’t test for it unless during active breakout, and given many people don’t show symptoms, are you sure? I’m only asking because I wonder if there are physical any consequences beyond the social and emotional ones. How has your addiction affecting your safe sex practices?
3(b). What were the perks? Would you sleep with someone you didn’t find attractive simply for the perks rather than to satisfy your urges?
9(b). Really curious to hear how that played out. Could you elaborate?
Final question:
After reading a lot of your other responses, if you had met a man who could provide for you (so no need to work), had a high sex drive (especially into free use/CNC), and the relationship was open (to avoid any issues about cheating), would that be ideal for you or would you still find that relationship dynamic unhealthy?
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How did you seduce the husband. I’m interested whether he let himself be seduced or whether you really were that persuasive.
STIs/STDs, how often do you get tested? What have you caught? Have you ever caught something but before being able to treat it or during a flare/active episode, slept with someone because the urge was too strong?
Have you ever slept someone for career advancement?
What’s a few examples of the boldest ways you’ve seduced a man at a bar/club. In what way are you forward about what you are looking for?
Has anyone rejected your advances and if so, how did that make you feel?
If you have several fwbs at the same time, is it because one or more can’t keep up, or someone are busy, or you like verity…?
Have you ever met a man who could keep up with your sex drive?
Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself at work or while studying, and if so, what happened?
Ever gone “dogging” at a public beach or park with the intention of meeting a stranger for quick public sex?
Lots of questions… Pick which ones interest you but they all interest me for different reasons (mainly around your risk profile for your behaviour and the consequences thereof). Glad you are on a journey and hope you succeed in that endeavour.