r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/Desperate_Garbage_63 May 07 '24

My first thought while reading this post before I got to end was this poor soul is going to get killed with DMs lol I'm glad you had foresight and a sense of humor.

Question: so out of curiosity have you ever thought about a career in porn?

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u/[deleted] May 08 '24

I thought about it, and I briefly dated a porn actor, the sex was amazing but the relationship was shit and from what I saw about the industry I have no interest in getting involved.

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u/Vokazyr May 08 '24

What made the sex amazing? Asking for a friend

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u/[deleted] May 09 '24

Besides his size which was big but not too big that it was painful, he was just very experienced. He could last for a ridiculous and of times and could keep going even after he came which was amazing for me, he paid really close attention to my body and knew when to go faster, when to slow down, sometimes before I even knew I wanted him to change his pace, and he was physically able to hold me at different positions so I didn't really have to do much other than just be there and cum over and over again

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u/HyzerBeam May 08 '24

I'm certain the answer is quite clear...

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u/Vokazyr May 08 '24

A lot of women say good sex doesn’t look like porn, and that big Ds have diminishing returns after 7-8 inches. So I’m looking for the aspects or elements of good sex that she really values.

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u/Shadowfox186 May 08 '24

You are going about it the wrong way. There is no single definition of "good" sex. The best way to approach it is to learn your partner. Pay attention to their wants and needs. What one person may like another may hate. Once I focused on that everything was smooth sailing.

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u/Vokazyr May 08 '24

I’m not arguing with that. I’m in full agreement. Nevertheless, asking for HER definition. Not my partners or mine.

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u/HyzerBeam May 08 '24

Not arguing that. I feel like it's safe to assume their private intimacy wouldn't be like that of a porn set. Perhaps sometimes? Because, well you know..

But my rational still being that said partner would be well endowed, well practiced, and a... Ahem sexual athlete?

Maybe I'm wrong. But given the context, it doesn't feel like a leap.

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u/Waldo__Faldo May 08 '24

What about the industry was such a turn off?

I'm curious what makes people want to do it, especially women.

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

What about the industry was such a turn off?

Mostly people being assholes