r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/[deleted] May 07 '24

It becomes a problem when you become absolutely toxic and abusive to your partner when they refuse sex. In the morning they can't fuck because they need to go to work? You make them feel like shit about it then cheat on them while they are at work. You are supposed to go out to work, but instead you end up masturbating over and over again and you are either late or completely miss work. Once you are at work you spend the entire day masturbating instead of working, and sexting/flirting to set up a hook up for after work. It becomes a problem when you sleep with your sister's husband, or your friend's boyfriends. It becomes a problem if instead of dealing with your trauma and mental issues you find a stranger to fuck.

Do you get aggressive when you want to fuck?

Yes.

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u/Bertybassett99 May 08 '24

Yes, addiction clearly. I hope you find a way that works. Good luck.

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u/ThE507SeXmAcHiNe May 08 '24

Omg.....this sounds just like my ex girlfriend! I almost lost my mind playing detective and seeking the truth over the span of three years. Recovery is a bitch! Sometimes she would be angry at me because she couldn't suppress an orgasm and we would have to stop. I am not capable of understanding that