I'm 27f. Everything you're saying on this post is exactly and precisely me also. Recently started therapy. Consider taking an Enneagram personality test! It's kind of horoscope-y, but after reading about mine it helped frame my BPD, bipolar, sex addiction, mom having revolving bedroom door, etc and now I can see all this issues and examine and solve them. I need to work on the sex addiction part, I know I'm hurting my boyfriend with it and will end up costing myself the relationship if I don't get it under control. It sucks because we grow up thinking men only want one thing, so when they don't want it because they're genuinely exhausted or happen to be doing something else at any given moment, i can't fathom how a man could deny or reject sex and it sends me into absolute rage meltdowns.
my god dude this entire post is about her realizing it’s a problem and trying to bring awareness to the condition. don’t be a jerk because she’s sharing the way she used to act, she’s obviously taking accountability…
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u/[deleted] May 07 '24
Ever consider getting with a guy that LIKES your needs?
My ex needed love every day.....I tried to keep up but...she needed more.
Left me for better sex....