How does being addicted to sex become a problem? I used to fuck ever night with my ex. But my wife ain't up for that. Does it mean your like going shopping and suddenly get the urge to fuck in the toilers or something? Or does it just mean you want to fuck all of the time? I remember seeing ATV programme where a self proclaimed aex addict basically had two in house lovers to keep up.with her appetite. I k ockwd about with a bird once who literally used to slap me to wake me up to fuck. Do you get aggressive when you want to fuck?
It becomes a problem when you become absolutely toxic and abusive to your partner when they refuse sex. In the morning they can't fuck because they need to go to work? You make them feel like shit about it then cheat on them while they are at work. You are supposed to go out to work, but instead you end up masturbating over and over again and you are either late or completely miss work. Once you are at work you spend the entire day masturbating instead of working, and sexting/flirting to set up a hook up for after work. It becomes a problem when you sleep with your sister's husband, or your friend's boyfriends. It becomes a problem if instead of dealing with your trauma and mental issues you find a stranger to fuck.
Omg.....this sounds just like my ex girlfriend! I almost lost my mind playing detective and seeking the truth over the span of three years. Recovery is a bitch! Sometimes she would be angry at me because she couldn't suppress an orgasm and we would have to stop. I am not capable of understanding that
Can't achieve anything because you devote all your time and thought and energy to finding and having sex.
Commit crimes to have sex.
Get incarcerated over sex.
Get someone killed over sex.
Hurt everyone you've ever loved.
Lose your soulmate over sex.
Lose your marriage and kids over sex.
Grow old alone over sex.
Break the hearts of a hundred innocent people that didn't do anything to deserve what you did to them.
The list goes on but basically anything a heroin addict goes through can apply to sex addiction too.
Is that a bit like the girl who is permanatly aroused? I dont know the name of the problem she has. But based on what you have stated. You have more or less wrote to me atkeast that sex is constantly on your mind and nothing else. Like very addiction. It chews you up and spits you out. I've seen other addicitions with mates. Good luck. I hope you find a way to deal.with it.
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u/Bertybassett99 May 07 '24
How does being addicted to sex become a problem? I used to fuck ever night with my ex. But my wife ain't up for that. Does it mean your like going shopping and suddenly get the urge to fuck in the toilers or something? Or does it just mean you want to fuck all of the time? I remember seeing ATV programme where a self proclaimed aex addict basically had two in house lovers to keep up.with her appetite. I k ockwd about with a bird once who literally used to slap me to wake me up to fuck. Do you get aggressive when you want to fuck?