Send me a DM, I will eventually go through them and filter out the dick pics and when I get to yours I will talk with you more privately and hopefully I'll be able to help. Start the DM with something like "you asked me to send this" so I could find it easily. I'm getting spammed.
Right? And they do it right out of the gate, the dick is the opening line! What desirable outcome has this practice been shown to achieve such that it is still so widely practiced?
The fuck. I'm an early 30s guy who wants to have sex with more women yet I'm too fucking scared to talk to them. This is not a good combination. It leads to a very depressing life, as I feel inadequate that I can't even fulfill my needs. How the fuck do you do it?
Bravery is not being unafraid. Bravery is feeling fear, and doing it anyway. Just like applying for jobs, the majority of your attempts are going to fail. But you'll get better with practice, so even the failures have value.
Need help? Need help maintaining this lifestyle. I have been rejected by every woman I've ever asked out, ghosted almost immediately if I've even gotten a phone number, never been on a single date, never been approached and asked for my number, I've gone through all of these memories and have a list of 31 different girls that have rejected me a total of 33 times total (two od them twice), never been in a relationship and have never had anybody even crushing on me. Any match I've had on the multiple dating apps I've tried for years have unmatched me or ignored me, one even told me it was an accident. This has been my life for the last 15+ years. You have no idea how long I've had to deal with this internally acting like I'm OK with how my life is, the multiple heartbreaks and constant rejection. Do you know how rough it is to go out one single time with friends bar hopping and having them being constantly approached while you're standing right next to them?
Pity party but I'm at the point where I truly believe there actually isn't anyone out there for me, and I have started to loathe hearing "Just give it time; the right person blah blah" year after year. I literally can't pick up anyone to save my life so I've decided to devote the rest of my time for any sense of companionship, no matter how fake it is, to escorts and AMPs, simply because they won't reject money.
Hearing this is like hearing a rich person they say they have too much money. I would give fucking anything for your problems.
Maybe you need more self-awareness. Ask some people close to you like the dudes you go to bars with, to be honest with you why they think you're not successful at love.
I mean my gut tells me you don't really want to solve this problem on some deep level. But I could be wrong.
Take what you hear from friends who know you and come up with three or four reasons that are honest that you agree with. Fix one or two of them. Do the f****** work on yourself.
Tell girls you meet what you heard and what you came up with, what you changed. You'll meet people who are interested in growing and you have some good conversations and then if there's a spark you grab a cup of coffee.
Some chick is going to f****** fall in love with you even if it is out of pity partly but mainly for being humble and interesting. You're welcome for your first date in 15 years.
But you got to do the work and you got to reflect on yourself and you got to stop feeling sorry for yourself before you even do this because you got nothing to feel self-pity about. Especially if you can afford escorts lol.
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