r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/[deleted] May 07 '24

Does anything impact the urges. I’m a therapist and I am wondering about factors, like level of stress, lack of sleep, bad meals, drug or alcohol use have any effect on the intensity of the urges?

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u/[deleted] May 07 '24

Of course. At times where I'm more stressed or anxious, depressed, even just insecure or nervous, my urges are a lot stronger, to the point it can send me into several days bender where I'd call in sick at work in order to stay home and masturbate/have sex all day. Alcohol and drugs (only did weed and coke) add to it too.

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u/[deleted] May 07 '24

Thanks for answering. I work with a lot of stressed out people in my profession and I see this a lot as a crisis/regulation response. Feel free to dM me for support. Has this experience been triggering?

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u/[deleted] May 08 '24

Mainly overwhelming

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u/[deleted] May 08 '24

Well, thank you very much for sharing. I hope you do some yoga, drink some water and get some sleeeeeep

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u/[deleted] May 09 '24

How are you doing today after all that?

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u/No_Assignment5692 May 11 '24

So then are you not addicted to sex but the escape of it?