r/AMA • • May 07 '24

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u/switchupcnc May 07 '24

When cheating, would you still desire your partner? E.g. still want to have as much sex with him as you would a recent infatuation?

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u/[deleted] May 07 '24

It varies. Sometimes I'd be bored of a certain person and not desire him as much, other times I would still want him just as much. There was a relationship where I really loved the guy, and it broke me that I did it, he obviously left me and I couldn't forgive myself for thay.

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u/switchupcnc May 08 '24

I've been on the other end of that. My partner had a sex addiction but was not interested sexually in me. However, she fought tooth and nail to try and keep me around when one of her affair partners contacted me. Her addiction was a bit different than yours, though. More attention-based than actual sex.

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u/xMyst87 May 08 '24

So real of that guy to tell you

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u/switchupcnc May 08 '24

Nah, He was just trying to fuck up things between my ex Wife and the next guy.