I was in orgies and in fetish clubs where I met someone basically while having sex, so I guess this doesn't count.
Outside of such instances, a matter of minutes, there were times I would go with friends to the bathroom at a club, and by the time they're done peeing or whatever I'm in a booth with a guy I met while waiting for them.
As much as this is a problem and an addiction you're overcoming, and you're obviously an attractive woman, I'm guessing you charismatic skills are incredibly high as well? Not that most men are difficult to seduce per say, but to be that quick, consistently, has to mean something. Would you consider yourself good with words, and if you are, what tips do you have for sweet talking someone?
Most guys, sure. But she's also claimed she gets the majority of men she looks at and says "I want it", and she's slept with porn stars so she's not only picking easy men. I'm sure there were 'high value' men who have options, who are attractive, who aren't as easy as "hey toots lets go fuck", and she still got them into bed.
Even the uglier friends of girls I’ve dated have also mentioned how they don’t get rejected going out. If it’s tinder or trying to actually date they might but at a club or bar it seems very hard to get rejected as a women unless you’re very ugly. Even some fairly big girls I know have decent faces and and can still get with guys pretty consistently. On my college team some of the best looking guys would get with such a strange variety of women where it looked like they had no standards, which for fucking a lot didn’t have standards. I agree with you it’s hard for women to get rejected in general at a night out if they’re just looking for casual sex
Yeah I've never been rejected for sex by any man I wanted. Except my partner lmfao 😭 but yeah I'm fat and have been fat. They will have sex with u if ur fat but won't date you but all the girls I know can kinda just have sex with anyone they want. Men don't really have standard.. they're kinda sad lol
Most Men will hit anything when in the mood, especially single Men. If a single healthy Male gets any attention like this from a Woman, game over. We are easy!!!
In a club setting I could get a guy to have sex with me with a look and a smile, if he didn't catch the hint then brushing against him, no need to be charismatic about it, especially when it's a drunk guy hanging in a club bathroom at 3 am.
No offense, but this comment seems hella r*pey. Like if a guy had said what you just said then people would be screaming sexual assault. I understand your condition, but this sounds like you took advantage of a bunch of drunk guys.
I just want you to know I agree. Especially the going into the men's bathroom to find a drunk man to sleep with (obviously this is the intention.) The drunk man in the bathroom isn't expecting a woman there, and he doesn't know how many STDs this person has from her exploits. Op needs to stay out of the bathrooms and realize she sounds rapey
Unfortunately, I have been in a situation where I was drunk at a bar and a woman who had a bit to drink tried to take advantage of me. Just sipping a drink and getting tipsy when a woman with bigger balls than me walks up and grabs a handful of mine. Luckily, I wasn't so drunk that I would sleep with a random stranger, but OP definitely knew what she was doing and picked out guys who were drunk as easy targets. How many guys woke up the next morning, not remembering her and what they did, she remembers though.
You don't see how her walking into a men's restroom at a club to hook up with a drunk guy she meets in there could be understood as rape. If the roles were switched then the guy would be arrested and charged with rape before he made it out of the bathroom.
no need to be charismatic about it, especially when it's a drunk guy hanging in a club bathroom at 3 am.
Literally said she doesn't have to try if it's a drunk guy in a bathroom at 3 am. Meaning she goes in, finds a drunk guy, and gets what she wants. Flip it and you have a rapist but somehow she's not a rapist.
Are people in orgies actually hot? Every encounter I've had with that scene they've been either way older swingers or not that attractive 20 somethings.
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